The Amazing Adventures of Ace and His Band of Cohorts and Comrades

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2009-03-22T08:33:00.000-07:00

"Now pardon me if I appear
To see beyond the now and here
To try and save myself
I could lose myself,
I could curse like hell
But I've lost the will to even try
If you ever doubt listen to the sound
No LiesThis is my last Goodbye"
KWS

"The Soul would have no Rainbow if the Eyes had no Tears"

Friendship is a plant of slow growth and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.
George Washington

I guess I really don't know where to start. But I'll give it a try. I don't want anyone to forget why this blog was originally started. It was a way to communicate with all of you on the condition and progress of Moriah after the accident. Unfortunately the progress never turned into what we had hoped and prayed for. I don't close this down lightly but I just feel it's the best thing to do. I would like to dedicate this post not only to Moriah and Mary, but to all of you that hung in there with me the past few years. To my friends and family I thank you. To all of you that have prayed for us, May God Bless You. Over the past few years the thought of Goodbye has been very difficult for me. I've cried many tears while saying goodbye because the reality is it might be the last one. As many of you know music has been one of my escapes throughout all of this and I hope that you have enjoyed the lyrics that I have shared with you. I guess music has been a form of prayer and thought for me. It has been a form of grief but also a form of celebration. Many times I've listened to a song that brings some tears and I think, why do I listen to this and why do I do this to myself. I guess that's why they invented the blues, so that triumph and celebration would have something to be compared to. I also had this thought after looking through lots and lots of pictures how much time I've spent fishing. So I thought I'd share some fishing pictures with you. It seems to me that it's not about fishing, but about spending time with our friends and family. To me there aren't many things better than being on or near water. One of Mary's requirements for a vacation or retirement place was water. I am forever grateful for that. It also gives us a connection to the outdoors and nature and the beauty of this world. Oh well sorry to pontificate. I started putting these pics together and had to minimize it to an acceptable level. As you know I usually have very little to say so here's the pics.

My favorite fishing partner

Claude and Dale after a day on Lake of the Ozarks

Mary's bud Dar with Jawon. That's Brian and me in the boat in the background. Fishin of course.

My first Marlin Cabo San Lucas

Laird and son Dusty with Dorado off the coast of Cabo

Caught this whopper with friend Harry Robbins off my dock at Lake of the Ozarks

One of my favorite pics. Mary took this on our last trip together to the Lake

Laird and I with Rooster Cabo San Lucas

My big brother Jim, on the prairie in South Dakota

Brother Ryan with the fish

and me

South Dakota

My first Northern at Earls' Cabin

Sylvan Lake Minnesota

Aiden,
Ooooh Nice fish,

and pants,

On the dock Lake of the Ozarks

Uncle Erv and Walleye

Pond fishin in South Dakota, one of my favorite things in the entire World. I am a product of the Prairie.

Cousin Steve, Uncle Lloyd, Cousin Mark, My Dad, yours truly.

Danielle''s first fish Lake Okoboji

Home pond and Church on the Hill

South Dakota

With friend Kevin Dahl and the Shimano fishing team. South Dakota

Should have gone to Hollywood

Friends Donna, Bill, Laird, Me,

Sandy and Mary

Mazatlan Mexico

Laird and Dale

Red Snapper

Mazatlan

Jawon and I

Lake of the Ozarks

Claude, Moriah, Cousin Brian

at The Rez

Hills Minnesota

Jawon contemplating what to do with this fish. Name him?? Keep Him?? Eat Him?? Throw him back?? Floppy went back into the water

Claude and a couple of Colorado River Stripers, Lake Havasu AZ

Ja

Jawon and sister with Ariah and his first fishin pole

Laird and Dale

Spoonbill

Lake of the Ozarks

Jawon with the bait

"The Gods do not deduct from Man's alloted time on Earth, the hours spent fishing"

Egyptian Proverb

Blue Cat

Lake of the Ozarks

"I know it's true

I'm living proof

This Road is long and hard

If I could find a way

I'd take your place, but you just

Got to Live ON!!

LIVE ON!!!!"

KWS

Well that's it for now. I'll leave this open for awhile for comments etc.

It is not I

It is you

It is you that I receive my motivation from

It is you that I receive my strength from

It is you that inspires me

It is my faith that guides me

It was easier when I knew nothing

For what a fool I once was

And even though I have learned so much

It is much harder now that I have lost so much

But it is you

Not me

Without you

I would be lost and weak

So may Gods grace

Continue to give you

The strength

That you

So unselfishly

Give to me

Where would I be without all of you??

Hope to see you down the road

God Bless

Keep prayin LOUD or soft.

Peace

Dale

James C4 V8

3-19-09

2009-03-19T15:27:00.001-07:00

My apologies that it's been so long since my last posting. I will be doing a final posting of the blog this weekend, so stay tuned for that. I will keep it open for comments etc but then I plan on shutting it down completely. I guess it's time to move along. In the future you can reach me at facebook or at msews@msn.com. I did want to let everybody know that the marker for Mary and Moriah's burial site at Oakhill Cemetary should be installed shortly. I hope and pray that all is well with all of you. Please keep Mary's mother Verna in your prayers as she suffered a heart attack this morning.
Down the Road!
Keep prayin, LOUD or soft
God Bless
Dale
I will not be returning my bonus to the taxpayers!!!!

1-28-09

2009-01-28T15:49:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone!

Not a lot new here, just trying to get thru another lovely Iowa winter. I have scheduled a trip back to Cabo to spend some time in the sun and on the water fishing. Should be a great break.
I had a real nice first week of the year with Danielle and Jawon. I just wish I could see them both more often.

I'm still trying to figure out what I'm going to do when I grow up.

God Bless Billy Powell!!

Hope all is well with all of you.

Down the Road
God Bless
Dale
Yep just keep prayin
LOUD or soft.

1-4-09

2009-01-04T08:14:00.001-08:00

Danielle, Dale, and Jawon wish you a
Happy New Year!!!!!!!!

12-8-08

2008-12-08T16:54:00.001-08:00

Hello Comrades,
Well lets see what have I been up to,
A couple of trips to Minnesota and a couple to Missouri,
Spent Thanksgiving weekend with my parents, Brother Jim and family, and Jawon.
A trip to Minnesota to see the Hawkeyes kick the Gophers out of the Roller Dome.
A trip to Missouri, a cold fishing trip with Laird, and I assembled the heaviest kitchen table ever made.

No Jawon we are not taking the puppy home.

Hey, where did everyone go?

Hey Ryan, isn't this Austin City Limits Festival great? Ryan? Ryan? Ryaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan?

Tough night? That will teach you to try and keep up with your brother!

Pretty handsome I'd say.

A special thanks to all of you who contributed some of your hard earned money to Moriah's memorial fund. I have disbursed all the funds that I have received. Remember these charities in the future.

Hospice of Mercy Hiawatha, Ia.

On With Life Ankeny, Ia.

Christ the King Lutheran Iowa City, Ia.

The Moriah and Mary Reiman Scholarship Fund of Iowa City.

Hopefully we will be able to give out our first scholarship this spring.

My gratitude can not be put into words.

Hope everyone has a great Christmas season. Please take a few moments and continue to remember us all in your prayers. 12-26-08 will mark 3 years of post tragedy life. Like Graham Parsons says

"Farther along we'll know all about it

Farther along we'll understand why

Cheer up my Brothers live in the Sunshine

We'll understand it all by and by"

God Bless

Keep prayin LOUD or soft

Down the Road

Dale

11-10-08

2008-11-10T16:55:00.000-08:00

There is a sacredness in tears.
They are not the mark of weakness,
but of power.
They speak more eloquently thant 10,000 tongues.
They are the messengers of overwhelming grief,
of deep contrition and of
unspeakable love.
Washington Irving

I have finalized all of the charitable memorials in Moriah's name. As you already know we sent a contribution to the scholarship fund in Mary and Moriah's name. I have also sent funds to On With Life in Ankeny, Hospice of Mercy in Hiawatha, and of course Christ the King Lutheran here in Iowa City. Words can not express my sincere gratitude to all of these great places and to all of you who contributed to Moriah's memorial fund. I'm also working on some ideas for the burial site for Moriah and Mary. Should have that wrapped up in the next couple of weeks.

How bout those Hawkeyes!! beatin up on Penn State. Man it was cold but the victory made it worthwhile. Had a great time with friends Brent, Grant, and John.

Congrats to Moriah's friend Maureen who was married on November 1st. Thank you Maureen for being such a true and loyal friend to Mo and also for honoring her at your wedding. Best of luck to you and Sam. When can we expect to see you on Dancing with the Stars???

Jawon was student of the Month for the second year in row. He's now in 1st grade. When I asked this time how he did it he said,
"I was well behaved, read a lot of books, and I'm the smartest kid in the class" When I asked him how he knew he was the smartest kid in the class he said,
"Cuz I'm the smartest kid in the class"
Simple logic I guess. I'll be seeing him around Thanksgiving which should be fun.

Other than that not much new. I'll be attending the Purdue game this weekend and then the every other year sort of annual trip to Minnesota for the battle with the rodents. I'm already sick of the cold weather so looking forward to a trip to some warmer confines at some point after the holidays.

Hope you all have a great Thanksgiving.
God Bless
Down the Road
Keep prayin
Loud of soft
Dale

Oh I almost forgot, in case you didn't look it up here are the answers to last weeks trivia question.

Dana Owens Queen Latifah
Bill Homans Watermelon Slim
Mckinley Morganfield Muddy Waters
Ellas Bates Bo Diddley
How many did you get right??

10-22-08

2008-10-22T18:01:00.000-07:00

Comrades and Cohorts

"When I was young, my dad said son
Never be ashamed of where your from
There's nothin wrong with your last name
So don't be lookin for people to blame
Cuz hard times they come and they go
And most of the time their in the middle of your road
Same pain
Different ways
Don't you know Son
When it pours it rains
Hard Times"
Ryan Bingham from Mescalito
One of my most favorite recent albums

Well let's see what have I been up to. Went to the Hawkeye/Wisconsin game.
How bout them Hawks! Finally, hopefully the good play will continue.

Played in a trivia tournament and we finished second out of 50, and I think I may have contributed a couple of correct answers.

So in honor of trivia here you go

These are the real names of what people?(music)
No cheating now

Dana Owens
Bill Homans
Mckinley Morganfield
Ellas Bates
If you think you know without doing the google thing let me know. 20 Points 5 each. Ha!

Life continues to amaze me in many ways. Going through Moriah's things has put many smiles on my face and of course a few tears. In one of those kind of strange moments I came across a bunch of her CD's and found one titled "Moriah's Mix" So I decide to download it and the first song I hear is Billy Joel's "Only the Good Die Young" Maybe so, Maybe so.

I'm heading back to Mizzou this weekend. Trying to get the house set up with furniture, amenities etc. So it's about ready to accept some guests. All are welcome!!.

That's if for now
God Bless
Dale

2008-10-08T18:12:00.000-07:00

Ok Ok Ok Ok
I'll keep doing this for now. I am so blown away by all the responses from all of you, even from people that I don't really know that well. So for now I guess ya all won't get rid of me so easily.
It has been a great source of inspiration and therapy for me so be careful for what you ask for!!
Peace
Dale

10-7-08

2008-10-07T18:33:00.000-07:00

10-7-08

I am so overwhelmed right now. Your responses have, well, oh shit, sorry.(tears) Anyway, Austin, Texas is a special place and I had a great time and a great trip, Great Music, and lots of beautiful people. I've gotta tell you all of it was good but Sunday in the tent with Nakia and his Southern Cousins and Mike Farris with The Roseland Rhythm Review , my brother Ryan, and some wine was pretty cool. Lots of energy etc. Ahhh guess you just had to be there. Just bought my tickets for next year. I didn't take a lot of pictures this time(any that I could print) just kidding!!

Did you know that this is National Mustache Month????

We have distributed 5k from Moriah's Memorial fund to the scholarship fund. The name has been changed to the Mary and Moriah Reiman Scholarship Fund of Iowa City. The first disbursment should be this spring to a deserving young lady who graduates from Iowa City West or City High School. Thank You Thank You to all of you that contributed. If you would care to contribute directly you may send it to,

PEO Executive Office
3700 Grand Ave
Des Moines, Ia. 50312
Checks should made out to the PEO Foundation with Mary and Moriah Reiman in the memo line. What could be cooler, and tax deductible.

Doc says I set a record for drop in blood pressure so that's a good thing. He also says I'm back to normal. Yeah right. Anyway trying to get a little healthier.

Beer should be like V8.

Anyway that's it for now. I'm heading to the lake this weekend. Hope to see many of you before the end of the year.

Down the Road
God Bless
Dale

Therefore I will not restrain my mouth;
I will speak in the anguish of my spirit;
I will complain in the bitterness of my soul.
Job 7 v11

Back from Texas

2008-10-05T08:39:00.000-07:00

Please let me know if you read this blog, by responding here or sending me an email at msews@msn.com. Otherwise I'm going to put this blog to rest. It's up to you.
Down the Road
God Bless
Dale

Friends, Bittersweet, 2 Beers

2008-09-19T17:12:00.001-07:00

Per many requests here you are.

Dear Moriah,
For two and a half years, we’ve lived without you, and every day we realize more and more what we’ve lost. Although we are well aware that there is no way to sum up your life in a brief letter, there are some thoughts that we’d like to share about who you were and why we loved and admired you so much.

You had such a strong moral compass. You knew who you were at an early age, and people could accept it or not – you stayed true to yourself even when challenged. While it is no small feat to know who you are and follow your beliefs as an adult, doing so as a teenager is a much greater achievement. This strength of character is a testament to how well your parents raised you.
You valued honesty above all else – you felt that people always deserved the truth. Though it was sometimes difficult for us hear, you always had the courage to tell us what we needed to hear, and you were a better friend for it.

You were so dedicated to your friends. You were wholeheartedly loyal. As a teenager, it can often be easier to say nothing than to actively stand up for someone else, but Katherine remembers you as the only person who would ever stand up in a crowd of "popular" kids to say "Stop making fun of her, she’s my friend."
You felt it was your responsibility as a friend to give 100%: you always gave total trust, kindness and support, and expected the same in return. JJ can remember you telling her that "I’m not afraid of dying young, I’m afraid of those close to me dying." These words show how much you cherished your friends and loved ones, and we all learned how to be a better friend from you.
You saw worth in everyone. You told JJ once that "Everyone is beautiful in their own way", and we know from your honest nature that you truly believed it. You had an eye for beauty and style, but you also saw room for improvement: none of us will ever forget the day you strapped Amber down and forcibly tried to pluck her eyebrows … or the day that you dyed Maureen’s hair, only to find out that the funky red color was permanent. The fact that you saw everyone’s beauty, inside and out, is a reflection of your own inner beauty.

But most of all, you lived your life with conviction. You never did anything halfway – your honesty, loyalty and humor were infectious, and you could make even the most mundane activities enjoyable. Your zest for life has inspired many people here today to live the same way: to live in the moment, and to cherish our friends and family as deeply as you did.
If we could turn back the clock, we would’ve told you these things every day. But the lessons that you’ve taught us about friendship, honesty, and the value of finding humor and beauty in every moment will continue to inspire us, and we can think of no greater legacy than that.

Thank you for all you’ve given us. Our love always- Maureen, Katherine, JJ, and Amber

Moriah's friends read this at her visitation. Man what a testament. It's about as proud as I could feel. Lots of tears still reading this one.

Here's the story(joke) I told at the visitation

Full

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonaise jar and the 2 Beers.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.

The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling space between the sand. The students laughed.

Now, said the professor as the laughter subisided. I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your faith, your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. the sand is everything else--the small stuff. If you put the sand into the jar first, he continued, there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend time with your children and grandchildren. spend time with your parents. visit your grandparents. Take the time to get medical checkups(profound). Take your spouse or friend to dinner.

Play another 18

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand!

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, I'm glad you asked.

The Beer shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of Beers with your friends!

Many thanks to all of you for all of your kind thoughts, words, cards, and donations during this difficult time. I hope to have the charities funded here in the next few weeks. God Bless all of you. I spent the week after the funeral down at the lake which was great. I looked at the street sign to the old lake house that Mary and I had purchased quite some time ago, it reads "Bittersweet" Can't believe I never realized that before.

I went back to work which I guess was ok. I'm going to try to get healthier(which Doc says will be a challenge) and pursue some other interests in the future. I guess we never know what the Lord has planned for us. I wish he would clue me in!! I'm headed to Austin Tx next week for the ACL festival with Bro Ryan, 300 bands, 12 stages should keep us busy and
Zigenbach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Down the Road
I'd love to hear from all of you
God Bless
Dale

Info

2008-09-02T14:01:00.000-07:00

Here's a few more pics of Moriah.
We will have picture presentation at the visitation with lots more.

For those of you that have requested
The address of the funeral home where the visitation is
Lensing Funeral Home
210 Holiday Road
Coralville, Ia. 52241
No flowers please

The Church address is
325 Mormon Trek Blvd
Iowa City, Ia. 52246
We will have maps at the Church to the reception

Also at 7:00 pm on Friday during the visitation anyone who would like to speak will have an oppurtunity to do so.
Down the Road
God Bless
Dale

2008-08-31T08:01:00.000-07:00

The more we love, the
more we are hurt when
we lose the object of our
love. But if we are
honest with ourselves,
would we have it any other way??
C.S. Lewis

Moriah's full obituary is available on
http://www.presscitizen.com/

God Bless
Dale

2008-08-29T07:57:00.001-07:00

Again many thanks to everyone for their thoughts and prayers

We are pretty well set on Moriah's funeral arrangements. The funeral will be on the 6th at Noon at Christ the King. Her obituary should be up later today or tomorrow at http://www.lensingfuneral.com/.

If you need lodging for Friday the 5th or Saturday the 6th please send me an email msews@msn.com. There is a home football game and there are some hotel rooms at a premium(unavailable for the most part) We do have many people that have offered the use of their homes, and if you are able to do that please let me know or call Mark Kamps @319-321-1235.

We are planning a reception(tailgate party) to honor Moriah after the funeral. If you are definitely going to attend please let me know also so we can get an idea of attendance. Food and beverages will be provided.(Go Hawks!!)

Please, Please, Please, no flowers!! We are going to be supporting several worthwhile charities with the donations.

God Bless

Down the Road

Dale

Oh yeah

Keep prayin

LOUD

soft

2008-08-27T17:08:00.000-07:00

The Angels They are Singin Now!!!

Moriah passed away today around 5:00 P.M.

My Latest Sun Is Sinking Fast
My Race Is Nearly Run
My Strongest Trials Now Are Past
My Triumph Has Begun

Oh Come Angel Band
Come And Around Me Stand
Oh Carry Me Away On Your Snow White Wings
To My Immortal Home

My Strength That I Have Received From All Of You
Has Blessed Me Greatly

God Bless
Dale

2008-08-15T11:35:00.000-07:00

At some point all the leaves must fall from the tree.

Moriah's condition has deteriorated.

She has been moved to a hospice house.

She'll be singing with the Angels soon.

Please keep praying, LOUD or soft.

God Bless
Dale

7-21-08

2008-07-21T17:48:00.000-07:00

I'm sorry to report that Dice the cat died on Sunday 7-20-08. She was one of the girls cats that were born in Dubuque on October 31st 1989. I know all of you who were bitten, scratched, jumped on, or hissed at by her will miss her. I'll miss her a little bit also.

If I should die before I'm old

My story will be less than told

There's so much more to suffer through

Before I meet again with you.

from Sirens Of The Ditch by Jason Isbel

Heard this driving home on Sunday. Just kind of made sense to me.

God Bless

Keep prayin

LOUD!! or soft

Peace

Dale

7-18-08

2008-07-12T17:41:00.000-07:00

No changes to report in Moriah's condition. She remains confined to her bed at this time. She is also battling a bit of a bronchial issue of some kind. Please keep us in your prayers. We need them now more then ever.

Danielle's trip home and graduation ceremony went well. Great night, great location, great weather, and beautiful people. I am so PROUD of her. Getting this done after all that has happened I think is quite an accomplishment. Thanks to all of you that showed up or sent a card or gave a phone call.

I had a great couple of weeks from a concert standpoint as I got to cross off a couple of musicians from my list of seeing them live. Of course a couple of weeks ago was Watermelon Slim. The night Danielle flew in we went to the Mississippi Valley Blues Fest in Davenport. We were joined by Danielle's friends Matt and Jessica and my friends Brian and Darlene. I think the youngsters actually had a good time. So anyway saw Elvin Bishop and had a great time.

"Elvin Bishop's sittin on a bale of hay,
he ain't good lookin but he sure can play"
Charlie Danielle's(ha ha)

"Boy sure is a nice day out today
I believe I'll go out in the garden
Dig me up some worms
And go Fishin!

"Some folks say that fishin on a Sunday's a sin"
I don't believe in that,
If a fish bites my line on Sunday
I'm gonna reel him on in!!
Elvin Bishop

Uncle Ron, Aunt Jayne, Danielle

Looks like Cody's havin a good time!

Miranda, Danielle, Jessica, Matt

Man, now I can get some rest!

Danielle and Proud Papa

Down the road

God Bless

Dale

Watermelon Slim!!!!

2008-07-01T18:24:00.001-07:00

Moriah's sore on her bottom is looking a lot better and the Doctor and Nurses are confident that we're not far from getting her back up in the chair. Hope their right.

I had an absolute great treat this past weekend as I ran into Watermelon Slim at a watering hole in Osage Beach. I have listened to a lot of tunes in the past and especially the past couple of years and Watermelons music has been a great part of the therapy, relief etc. Many of you know my affection for the blues and they don't get any better than this. Watermelon Slim and the Workers won best Blues Album and Best Blues band of the year at the Blues Music awards this past year. To see them in this venue overlooking the lake was way cool. And no crowd!! Anyway I won't bore you with the details but it was a pretty cool evening. Also he asked that we say a prayer for his daughter so please do so. Check out his bio at watermelonslim.com. He is a true American with an affection for the working man. An extraordinary man(Mensa) maybe a bit smarter than me. My apologies if none of this makes any sense to you.

Hope to see many of you this weekend.
Check out Elvin Bishop Thursday night in Davenport at the Mississippi Blues Fest
God Bless
Happy 4th
Dale

Sorry Charlie Musselwhite but this guy is good!!

me and my new Watermelon fans

not sure who the dude in the back is

Watermelon Slim and Bald Guy Slim

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Hard Times

That's a big dog

6-24-08

2008-06-24T16:44:00.001-07:00

Nothing new to report on Moriah. Maybe next time I'll have done some convincing to get her up in the chair.

We will be having an open house for Danielle's graduation from Philadelphia University on Saturday July 5th from 5 to 8 at Brian and Darlene Olshanky's. Please let me know if you can come so I can get an idea for beverages, food, etc. Or just show up and surprise us. Brian and Darlene live on Maier road which is a couple miles past Menards on Highway 1 south. Take a left on Maier road, go through the S curve and then the second drive on the left. We'll mark it so you don't miss it.

I had a good weekend although too fast, too far, and too much gas. Oh well. I took Jawon and his sisters to the Zoo and we had a great time.

Hope all is well with all of you.
Give me a call at 319-400-4423 or drop me an email at msews@msn.com if you can come to the reception.
God Bless
Dale

Some pics from the trip to the Zoo.

Lots of strange animals

Aria, Jawon, and Ebony

Nice haircut Jawon

I thought I told you not to get wet!!

uhm, good ice cream

check out this carmeled apple

6-15-08

2008-06-15T16:02:00.000-07:00

Happy Fathers day to all the Dad's out there. Locally I think we're a little pre-occupied with some other things.

Moriah is still confined to her bed. She will see the doc tomorrow so hopefully we'll be able to start getting her back up in her chair soon. She looked pretty good this morning when I visited her. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Here's some pics of Coralville and Iowa City. What a mess. It's gonna be a long road to recovery for a lot of people.

The Wig and Pen, home of the flying tomato

The Vine on the strip

Sluggers

Finkbine golf course in the lower left

U of I softball fields

intersection of 1st ave and the strip in Coralville

Hills bank in south Iowa City

My friend Mark Kamps office is in the upper right hand corner across from the treatment plant

U of I softball field

across the street is Old Chicago

No more Tuesday nights for awhile

Part of the strip

Mondo's down on the left

Days Inn on Coralville on the left

Got this one twice

The pedestrian bridge by Iowa River Power. Jawon and I go here to watch the Eagles

More of the Coralville Strip

Mondo's is in the center

City Park

I wonder what Bill Shakespeare would have to say about all of this??

This is where my friends and I hangout. There is probably another 6 feet of water here currently

The Heartland Inn

The Coralville Resevoir. The water went over the spill way which is on the left for only the second time in history.

The Orange roof is where Mark's office is.

Enough said I guess

Things can be replaced. Friends and family can't.

God Bless

Hang in there everyone.

Dale

The Flood

2008-06-13T18:57:00.001-07:00

Please keep my community and friends in your prayers. Many of my hangouts are currently under water with 3 to 5 more feet of water on its way. Moriah and I our safe. This state and community has some tough days ahead. Man, Mother Nature has really unleashed her fury. You can go to Presscitizen.com to view stories and photos.
God Bless
Dale

6-9-08

2008-06-09T18:52:00.000-07:00

Time flies!! I see that I haven't posted anything since May 18th.
No major changes to report on Moriah's condition. She has been pretty stable the past few weeks and has looked good. We did take a trip for a review of her chair, posture, etc. Hopefully we will be seeing her up more often after we make some equipment adjustments and get her a different seat for her chair. Hard to believe you need a prescription for a chair pad, but I'm learning the inner workings of the Medicaid system.

Rush was better than ever.
Rock on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I learned a valuable lesson from an old friend this past week. Thanks Nathan. Never ever give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope to see you all down the road soon.
God Bless
Dale

5-19-08

2008-05-19T18:05:00.000-07:00

Nothing real new with Moriah's condition the past few weeks. We did end up in the hospital again for one day but it turned into somewhat of a false alarm. She continues to spend more time in bed than I would like, due to the skin issue on her bottom, but I did have her up in the chair on Sunday for a couple of hours and a short trip outisde. She looked pretty good on my daily visits this past week or so, and appeared quite comfortable.

I would like to extend a special thanks to the Dane family and Moriah's friend JJ Dane (Severson) JJ got married on Saturday and she listed Moriah as an honorary bridesmaid. JJ also made a donation to Mary's scholarship fund in lieu of gifts to her guests. Left me with a pretty heavy heart you could say. Pretty darn cool!!! Best of luck to JJ and Eric. What a beautiful day you had.

I'm heading out for some more music on Tuesday as I will be attending the Rush concert in Moline. I still remember the first time Gunner and I sat in his house and listened to their first couple of albums, 1973 or so. Man a long time ago. I've seen them many times and it never gets old. They are probably the best thing to come out of Canada, with the exception of hockey and my other bald brother Jim Knowles!! (has anyone seen my earplugs?)

Best wishes to Moriah's friend Mike Turner who is leaving Iowa City and heading towards Chicago. Mike, I know it's closer to Green Bay but, do you think you can handle all those Bears fans?? Thanks for being not only Moriah's friend but mine. I know it hasn't been easy for you either, not sure what else to say.

Danielle is doing well and finished her last semester with flying colors. She needs to take one class this summer to graduate. I hope to make a trip out their soon and I think she will be coming back some time in July.

I'm heading to the lake for the Memorial Day weekend. I have rented the old house for a year so I will be starting to set up shop in the new house. Probably should think about getting some furniture so I'll be spending some time on that also. Stop by if you're in the neighborhood.

And the men who hold high places
Must be the ones who start
To mold a new reality
Closer to the heart
"Closer to the Heart" Rush

Peace
God Bless
Dale

2008-05-01T18:11:00.000-07:00

Yeah, Yeah, I know it's been awhile, sorry.
Moriah's last couple of weeks have not been the best. We ended up in the hospital for a few days due to some pneumonia and aspiration issues. That seemed to clear up ok but she was having some pain in right hip or leg area. She does have a skin issue that is aggravated by her sitting in her chair, so she will be laying down quite a bit until that clears up. We also ended up in the ER for a day because she seemed to be moaning and expressing some severe pain on her right side. All the xrays and prodding found nothing. Kind of exasperating but she looked great when I visited her today. She also had visits from Uncle Jim and Grandfather Claude and Grandmother Verna. Man what a trip.

My last couple of weeks have also been tainted by some tragedy as Rex and Alice Spicer lost their son Scott. Please say a prayer for them. They were great friends of Mary's and I, members and employees of our Church, and Rex and Alice both had comforting things to say after Mary's passing. Somehow, somehow, God grant them some comfort.

Krystal, I'm praying for your friends.

I'm heading off to the lake this weekend.
Safe travels
God Bless
I guess we never know what's planned for us.
What's next??
Dale

No No No!!

2008-04-09T17:56:00.000-07:00

You might think I'm quoting Amy Winehouse and that Moriah doesn't want to go to rehab but those three words were spoken by her over the weekend according to one of the RN's at Windmill Manor. I've been through so many high's and low's that for now I will remain cautiously optimistic but understand that we don't know where this will lead us. She has looked pretty good lately and as always she remains in my daily thoughts and prayers.

For those of you who commented on my blogging, I must say that I was completely overwhelmed by the response. Thank you to all of you that commented, emailed, called, prayed, etc. I guess it's moments like these that make the blog thing pretty cool. Man not sure what else to say.

Jawon and I had a pretty good week. The weather stunk, the roof leaked, the fish wouldn't bite, but other than that we had a great time.

His quote of the week
"Hey Dale, don't you love to have the windows down and feel the wind blowing through your hair? oops, sorry"

Could you find 3 finer looking young men in Iowa City? I don't think so.

Smores with Laird and Sandy and Jawon's new friend Lily.

Come on Sunnyfish bite!

New buddy

And we were swingin!

Where did that come from?

Finished!

No hair but lot's of ear

For those of you who view the blog, I hope this holds you for awhile.

Farther along we'll know all about it

Farther along we'll understand why

Cheer up my brothers and sisters

Live in the sunshine

We'll understand it by and by

Ellen McIllwaine

Peace and God Bless

You all are the best

Dale

3-24-08

2008-03-24T17:46:00.000-07:00

I hope you all had a great Easter!! I fought a bad cold all weekend and lost my voice. Sorry, it's back now.

I've really thought about not doing this blog thing anymore but I've been threatened so here ya go. Maybe I should do one of those online polls.

Not a lot new with Mojo. She has again looked pretty good since the last posting. I got a bit of a squeeze out of her hand on Easter. Her eyes were locked in one position when I arrived but she was looking around a little during the visit. Her bone medication is going the way it's suppose to and she hasn't had any adverse reactions so that is good.

Danielle made the Dean's list!!! I am so proud of her. She (hopefully) will graduate at the end of the Summer and head out to change the world. She has been one of my rocks after all that has happened. She reminds me a lot of a young idealist I knew when I was 18 or so.

I'm off next week and hope to see Jawon and spend some time at the lake and catch some Sunnyfish as he would say.

"I took her hand, and I gave her a twirl, and lost my heart to a Galway girl."
Galway Girl by Steve Earle from Transcendental Blues
ran across this song hunting for some St Patrick's day tunes. Ha!! found this ironically appropriate and he's in town next month.

Make the most of the time, because the days are evil.
Ephesians 5 v16

Todays events in Iowa City really made me pause and think of this passage.

Keep prayin, LOUD or soft!!!!
Thank you all for being part of my blessings.
Man I love spring.
God Bless
Dale

3-10-08

2008-03-10T18:32:00.000-07:00

Moriah's results from her bone scan were not good. Her bone density is decreasing. She is being treated with something that I can't remember or spell but basically it's Calcium with some vitamins to try and help restore her to normal levels. This was kind of an unexpected setback as the test was done as a precaution and the thinking was that we wouldn't see this with someone of her age, but the lack of activity has taken it's toll in regards to her bone density.
Actually other than that she's looked pretty good the past few weeks.

What can I say??
Is this the way that life is suppose to be?
Maybe it's exactly as it's suppose to be.
And there's a reason that you just can't say
There are good days and they come and go
But they never seem to last
Cuz when the bad days they come around
They always seem to kick the good days ass right into the ground!

plagurized from Bob Schneider

Sorry for taking so long to post,

Speaking of good days thanks to
Max
Jim
Joe
Jelly
for having dinner with me on my birthday.

and to all of those of you that called or sent a card on my birthday(although I really didn't want you to) well ok maybe I did

And to those of you who remembered Mary's birthday on March 1st.(although I really didn't want you to) well ok I did.

I guess nobody said this would be easy.
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Dreams of Angels and Sunshine
Rivers of Red Wine
And Orange Peel Blue
I'm Dreaming of You.

Billy Joe Shaver "I'm Gonna Live Forever"

Keep praying Loud of Soft
God Bless
Dale
P.S.
I'm ok, sometimes you
just gotta get some thoughts out of your brain to make room for some better things.
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!
that feels better.

2-10-08

2008-02-10T16:54:00.001-08:00

Moriah had a better week this week. She looked good and seemed to have a bit more alertness in her eyes. In spite of this her medical condition is getting more complicated. We will be doing a bone density test in a couple of weeks to determine if there are any signs of osteo breakdown. Her skin remains pretty good but the Doctor's continue to have a concern with this due to some bruises and that spot on her arm from a couple of weeks ago. That has disapated. Medicine's continue to be a concern as to how much her body will tolerate, but as of yet she hasn't had any major reactions to any of the medicine that she is on. All of the things they tell you could happen with some one in her condition is of concern. Inactivity is her enemy. She does however have her age on her side. Again that's the short version so just keep on praying!!

Please say a prayer for the family of Julie Baird. Julie lost her battle with cancer a week ago. She was a member of our church here in Iowa City and lived in Urbandale for the past 7 years. I pray that God will give Mark and his boys comfort.

Jawon's picture from Dayton's Cross Elementary School in St Paul, Mn.
Student of the Month for January!!!!!!!!!
When I asked him how he did it he said he
Worked really hard
Paid attention
And helped everyone else.
Pretty good advice I'd say. Way to go little buddy!!

Don't you want to be there?
Don't you want to go?
Where the light is breaking and the cold clear winds blow.

Don't you to be there?
In the golden glow?
With your arms out
Let out a shout
Take you across the sky
Don't you want to be there?
When your times gone by?

Times there was love all around you
Time you were strong and alone
Times you believed love had found you
And you fell through time like a stone
And those you have wronged you know
You need to let them know some way
Those you have wronged
You'll have to let them go some day

Don't you want to be there?
Don't you want to cry?
When you see how far to go to be where forgiveness rules?
Instead of where you are?

Don't you want to be there?
Don't you want to know?
Where the grace and simple truths of childhood go?

Don't you want to be there?
When the trumpets blow?
Blow for those born into hunger
Blow for those lost beneath the train
Blow for those choking in anger
Blow for those driven insane

Don't you want to be there?
Don't you want to see when the Angels appear?

Don't you want to be where there's strength and love?
Instead of fear?

Jackson Brown "Don't you want to be there?" from the great album "The Naked Ride Home"

Don't want to get on a soap box, but there's some pretty good stuff out there in what some call the "secular" world.

God Bless
Keep the Faith
Pray loud or soft
Dale

1-31-08

2008-01-31T18:04:00.000-08:00

This week has not been so kind to Moriah. We started out Sunday with a suspicious red spot and swollen area above her elbow on her left arm. So off to the hospital we go. After exams, xrays, ct scan, ultrasound, and a bunch of other stuff it was decided to admit her into the hospital. A chest xray revealed the possibility of pneumonia. Lots of anti biotics later and her white cell count returned to normal. And we're ready to check out on Wednesday and her tests reveal a urinary infection so another night at the hospital. A negative test for pneumonia and she returned to Windmill Manor on Thursday afternoon. That's the short version. The area on her arm looks better but is not totally resolved and a cause was never determined. They will continue to administer some anti biotics and watch it to see what happens.

Have a great Super Bowl weekend!!
Keep prayin for those who are hurting and suffering
God Bless
Keep the faith
Dale

For I know the plans I have for you. Plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.
Jeremiah 29:11

Kathy Baack and Julie Baird and families "I'm praying for you"

1-21-08

2008-01-21T17:38:00.000-08:00

Moriah celebrated her 26th birthday yesterday!! Thanks to those of you who remembered her. She seems to be doing a little better and there have been some optimistic comments from the therapists. So who knows where the road will lead us. She did experience the bloody nose thing again, but it didn't turn into anything serious. Other than that she has looked pretty good this past week.

That's it for now.
Peace
God Bless
Dale

P.S. Too bad about the Packers.

1-14-08

2008-01-14T17:00:00.000-08:00

our 2007 Christmas card, sorry it's late. I hope to get the rest of them out this week.

funny hat night at the Olshansky's

new duds for Christmas

No major changes with Moriah. She has looked ok the past couple of weeks. My apologies for waiting so long for an update. We did get approval to put her back on ambien which I think is a good thing. Even though it hasn't produced any dramatic results it does seem to allow her to rest better at night and retain more of a sleep/wake cycle. They are also doing some therapy out of the chair a couple of days a week which is good. The therapists think that this is helping and express that they have seen some minor improvements but I can't say that I've noticed anything. I'm not sure where I signed up for all of this but I continue to be comforted by all my family and friends. Man, what a trip.

Danielle had a good visit and made it back to Philly in one piece in spite of an extra night in Ohio due to an alternator issue(Jessica!!). We had Jawon for New Years week and had a great time. He continues to amaze me by his perception of life.

"Hey Dale, wouldn't it be cool if everday was a holiday?"

Yes it would.

"Hey Dale, how do you run for President?"

Uhhh I'm not sure, but I'll bet you could win the debate.

Nothing major coming up. The house in Missouri is pretty much done. Just a few minor details to wrap up. I spent the weekend after New Years at the lake with 65 to 70 degree weather which was nice. Can't wait for spring.

God Bless

Keep prayin loud or soft.

Dale

So much sorrow

So much pain

But still I will not live in vain

Like a question never asked

Is wisdom wasted on the past?

Only by the grace of God

Go I Go I

"Ben Harper"

Blessed Christmas

2007-12-24T10:22:00.004-08:00

Hope all of you have a great Christmas!!

Not much new with Moriah. She's looked pretty good the last couple of weeks. A few skin issues but nothing major. Other than that she just keeps hangin in there.

Danielle made it home last night. She was one of the lucky ones who didn't have her flight cancelled.

Yeah well I guess that's it for now. It's hard for me to believe that we're nearly 2 years after our lives were changed forever. Thanks to any of you have thought about or prayed for us. It really does make a difference.

And you, beneath life's crushing load,
Whose forms are bending low,
Who toil along the climbing way
With painful steps and slow;
Look now, for glad and golden hours
Come swiftly on the wing;
Oh, rest beside the weary road
And hear the angels sing.
"It Came Upon the Midnight Clear" vs3

Remember what Christmas is all about.
There is a brighter day around the corner.

Some things change
Some things don't
Never give up
Because I won't

God Bless
Peace on Earth
Dale

Back to work

2007-12-05T17:18:00.000-08:00

Yeah I went back to work today. I''ll be working in the Iowa City store as a sales rep in the Commercial/Contractor department. Another step back towards reality I guess.

I had a good Thanksgiving weekend with Jawon and my parents in Eau Claire Wi. Also got to see old St Cloud friends Kevin and Mary Dahl and family. Then met friends Harry and Grant Robbins and John and Tim Couchman to watch the Minnesota High School Football Championship at the Metro(roller)Dome in Minneapolis. I think these 5A schools could give the Hawkeyes and Gophers a run for their money. Then off to St Cloud to see my sister Sue and family and a surprise birthday(50th) for Jayne(Mary's sister). Lots of fun. Then off to Owatonna on the way home to see old friend Rob Hagen and watch the Vikes win big?? Who are these guys?? Anyway a busy but very fun and productive trip.

This past weekend my parents traveled to Iowa City and we holed up during the storm on Saturday. On Sunday the benefit for Mary's scholarship fund went well. Don't have the final totals but looks like we raised close to 2000.00 $$$$$$$$$$$ So that's very cool. My heartfelt thanks to Mojo's friend Sarah Lepp who volunteered to play the piano for this event. Thank you so much. What a talent you have, It was also good to see your parents. God Bless your family.

I was supposed to return to work on Monday but Mojo must have known I was a little apprehensive about that and decided to get me out of a couple of days. Monday was pretty rough. She was rushed to the Hospital early Monday morning due to some bleeding and an unknown source. When I arrived she looked pretty tough but after they found the source and got her cleaned up she looked pretty good. A couple of edgy hours and I pretty much fell apart in the ER. So the EMT helps calm me down and then tells me she was driving the ambulance the day of the accident. Wow I guess it was one of those moments where everything hits you. So after a couple of probably somewhat unintelligble phone calls my friend Mark Kamps shows up and spends the afternoon in the hospital room with me. Thanks Max!! Anyway it turned into a pretty productive visit as we were able to fit in a couple of future appointments and procedures that will save us some trips in the future. Also all the staff at UIHC were great!!!

So back to work on Wednesday.
check this link out if your tired of saying Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas
Thanks Mick and Marg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAckfn8yiAQ

Everyday is a struggle with a triumph at the end for making it through.
Thanks for all your help and prayers
God Bless
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Peace
Dale

11-19-07

2007-11-19T10:41:00.000-08:00

Sarah is a childhood friend of Moriah's from Dubuque. They kept in touch after we moved to Iowa City from Dubuque. Hope you can attend. Donations will be accepted at the concert. Proceeds will benefit the Mary Reiman Scholarship Fund of Iowa City.

Donations to this fund are tax deductable. Checks need to be made out to the P.E.O Foundation and if you could, please write Mary Reiman Memorial Scholarship Fund in the memo line.

Nothing really new with Moriah. She looked really good over the weekend. Couldn't be because she watched the Hawkeye game! She has also been battling a little bit of congestion again so we will have to keep an eye on that. We have a follow up visit to the eye doctor next week. So, we still need your prayers.

The house is coming along well. All the floor tile, cabinets, interior doors, and most of the trim are done. The outside decks are done as well, I would show you some new pictures but I left my camera home on the last trip. Should be pretty well wrapped up in the next few weeks.

I'll be heading to Wisconsin for the Thanksgiving weekend. First time in 30 years I haven't had to work on the Friday after Thanksgiving. In retail we have a few different names for this day, but I'll let your imagination figure that out. Have a great holiday, remember what it's for(giving thanks) and give all your loved ones a hug for me.

Cherish what you have, not what you don't.

God Bless

Dale

11-11-07 Thank You Veterans

2007-11-11T17:55:00.000-08:00

Fall in the Ozarks

Dale, can't you read?

Ryan and Myself near the highest point in Missouri.

Morning has broken.

The Ozark Mountain Daredevils.

Window wall at the new house.

Ryan and I had a great week in the Ozarks. We pretty much had the place to ourselves. The hiking was great. The colors were great. The concert with the Daredevils was probably one of the best musical experiences ever (for me). They sounded great in a very small, intimate environment. They played several songs I had never heard live before including "Beauty In The River" Wow, lots of goosebumps. What a cool venue. Brought back a ton of good memories. We had to cut our trip a little short as I had to return to Iowa City as Moriah was thought to have had an ear infection. So another trip to the hospital but it turned out to be nothing serious. We have a couple of new supports for her chair so that problem appears to have finally been corrected. She finally sits up a little straighter and looks more comfortable. She continues to be somewhat alert at times but no major changes. We will be returning to the hospital for a follow up visit on her eyes in a couple of weeks . Keep on prayin!

The house project is moving along. Should look like a different place in a couple of more weeks. I'll be heading down for a few days this week to finish the decks. Hopefully I'll be in by Christmas.

"I've been walking on the ground waitin for the guns to quit,

I've been walkin on the ground waitin for the pieces to fit"
John Dillon OMD

Stay in touch

God Bless

Dale

11-2-07

2007-11-02T14:57:00.000-07:00

Moriah had a pretty good week. We finally have a better head brace for her wheelchair. She looks much more comfortable without the strap across her forehead. She was visited several times this week by her Grandparents Claude and Verna(Mary's parents). It was great to have them here, and Claude and I even got a round of golf in(he golfed I whacked). They are on their way to there winter home in Lake Havasu AZ.

I'm on my way to the airport to pick up my brother Ryan. We will be spending the next week hiking in the Ozark National Forest. We hope to see some of God's beauty along the Ozark Trail and will take in a concert in Steelville, Mo. by the Ozark Mountain Daredevils. Bittersweet, Bittersweet.

If anyone would like flyers in regards to the benefit on November 2nd for the Mary Reiman Scholarship Fund of Iowa City please let me know. I can get you copies.

Brutal honesty is not brutal.

Down a dangerous road I have come to where I'm standing with a heavy heart and my hat clutched in my hand. Such a foolish fool, God ain't known no greater sinner. I have come in search of Jesus, hoping He will understand.

Billy Joe Shaver

Seems like I can't go a day without listening to Billy.

God Bless

with a heavy heart

Dale

Survival is easy

2007-10-24T17:26:00.000-07:00

"Survival is easy
It's living that's hard
It takes a lot of courage
To be who you are"
Marshall Chapman

If you see this I'm driving down the road.

Danielle and I in Philly

Ahhhhhhhhh! Champagne(Apple Juice)

Good cake Jawon?

@ Sarah(Robbins) and David Morgan's wedding

Moriah's trip to the eye clinic went pretty well. Her eyes tested out as normal as far as response to light, dialation, etc. Hopefully this is good news. She also has had some problems with pressure in her left eye which also checked out as normal. We can't really tell if she can see as that would be a function of the brain and the only way we would know would be for her to confirm it. Unfortunately we don't have that as of yet. She'll get her eyes retested in 6 weeks to see if there are any changes. She's also having a couple minor problems with her skin(rash) but hopefully that will not be anything too serious. I spent about five hours with her today and she seemed quite comfortable. We are getting new parts for her chair next week(finally) and that should help her posture while sitting up in the chair.

If you care to check out the house that Mary and I bought at Lake of the Ozarks(or want to buy it) click on the link below and then click the virtual tour icon. You'll see her touch in every room.

http://www.lakeozarksmls.com/loo/maildoc/a005Ai8888.html

Keep prayin loud or soft . Keep these friends in your prayers

Deb Reefer(family friend)

Pat Ford(one of my legal advisors)

Both are fighting serious illness.

Keep the Faith

God Bless

Dale

10-18-07

2007-10-18T15:15:00.000-07:00

Romans 5 vs 1-5

I still keep my hope.

Nothing really new with Mo. We have an appointment next week that will check her vision, so that will be interesting to see what the results are. She's looked pretty good on my last couple of visits. We're still having a little bit of a battle with her chair and trying to get something that will fit her better. I ask that we remain in your prayers.

I put on about 3000 miles the past few weeks and have only stopped by my place in Coralville for a few short stops. The Pennsylvania trip went well(other than the football game) and Danielle says Hi to everyone. Stopped by to see some old neighbors the Foresters and the Hoshis. A trip to Minneapolis for the Robbins wedding and a day with Jawon and then onto my brothers cabin near Hayward, Wi. Spent a couple of days in Eau Claire with my folks.

My plans for this weekend changed as one of Mary's Aunt's passed away(Leona) so I'll be checking out the concert tonight in Iowa City with a couple of last minute replacements. Jayne(Mary's sister) and husband Ron were coming down and then onto the lake but they are staying in Minnesota for the funeral. My prayers are with the Hanson's.

I'll be heading down to the lake this weekend. The house is progressing. Interior doors and trim have started and the flooring should start soon. I've decided to put up the other lake house for sale. It's been a hard decision but I think it's the best. It's been a tough place to go to and tough place to leave as many great times and memories are there. It's tough for me to sit on the dock and not see Mary up on the deck. A great time was had there by all.

Please put December 2nd on your calendar.. Sarah Lepp a childhood friend of Moriah's will be performing a piano recital at our church. It will be at 2 o'clock in the afternoon. Sarah is a music student at the University of Texas. The proceeds from this recital will go to Mary's scholarship fund. I'll get you some more details in a few weeks.

I'm still trying to come up with a time that we can have a get together and dedication for the plaque in the Galway neighborhood. I'll keep you posted.

Please keep long time friend Kathy Baack in your prayers as she continues her battle with cancer.

I'm starting to understand some people's attraction with the road. Freedom is a cool thing. Everything is a journey and I continue to be so blessed by all your friendships.

May the Lord guide you down the road.
God Bless
Peace
Dale

Cabo

2007-10-04T06:23:00.000-07:00

The view from our beach.
Beautiful place.

Mahi Mahi

aka Dorado
aka Dolphin

we caught a couple

dozen of these.

good sushi

yum yum!!

Fish on!

150lb Striped Marlin

Very tired fisherman

Cabo was great. Caught lots of fish and had great weather, food, and company. I'm heading out this afternoon to Pennsylvania so this is just a short note. Nothing new with Moriah. Please keep praying for us. Say a prayer for the family of my friend Bill Fulton(Austin trip) as his Dad is not doing very well. Hope the Hawks put on a better show at Happy Valley this Saturday. Look for me on TV. (No I won't be running on the field)
Safe travels to all.

God Bless
Dale

9-25-07

2007-09-25T07:59:00.000-07:00

Mary's Plaque has been installed. We will try to have a get together and dedication at a later date. Feel free to stop by and take a look. It is located by the sidewalk to West High between Melrose Meadows and the Mormon Church just off of Dublin.

Mary's cross and Moriah's Medallion.

Not a lot new with Moriah. She remains in basically the same state as the past few months. Still looks pretty good and has her eyes open most of the time while I'm there. We're going to get her eyes checked at UIHC in a few weeks. Evidently they can tell us if she can see, and to what degree. Again I thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers.

On the Road Again

I will be gone a lot in the next few weeks so if you don't see a posting don't get too alarmed. I'll be heading to Cabo for a fishing trip with my good friend Laird and then to Pennsylvania to see the Hawkeyes at Penn State and on to Philly to see Danielle. A couple of short turn arounds and up to Minnesota and Wisconsin for a wedding and some fishing.(Maybe I'll catch my first Muskie)

If you care to, give me a call @3194004423 depending on cell phone coverage of course. I'd love to hear from you.

The Lord keeps showing my thy paths.

God Bless

Dale

"Is getting back to reality real?"

Austin City Limits

2007-09-19T14:49:00.001-07:00

note the sign on the truck or car?

70,000 of my new friends

How Ya'all doin?? What a trip! A great time was had by all as far as I could tell. The people were great the food was great and the music was even better. The amount of talent was amazing. I guess I'm a little slow sometimes but I think I figured out some of my connection to music and what it means. Years ago Johnny Cash said something like "God likes a southern accent and He tolerates country music and quite a bit of guitar." You know the music means somethin when the hair(what little I have) stands up on the back of your neck. Or your emotions are touched. Hard to explain but it helped me figure some things out. I would like to thank Bill Fulton for tolerating me for four days and bein a trooper. A while back he said if I bought tickets he'd go with so I held him to it. We had a great time. I would also like to thank the great Billy Joe Shaver who really touched my soul. His wasn't the greatest musical performance but by far the most touching. I was starting to kind of lose control of the ol tear ducts and thought maybe I was the only one, well I look around and see a bunch of people crying. He's had a tough go losing a son and wife, so I guess it just kind of hit me hard. So as Billy says hang in there and "Try and Try Again." One of those reinforcements of life's lessons I guess. Sorry for the pontification.

Top Ten or so things about the trip,

#1 Check your shoes before you leave so you don't have two left ones.

#2 "Hey Bill how come all those cars are heading towards us"

#3 Music is probably better than football, left at half time.

#4 Why are there all these cars with Texas plates? Oh Yeah Texas!

#5 Not everyone in Texas likes George Bush especially, oh never mind

#6 Watching Grace Potter sing and move and Hey Bill did you get her phone number yet?

#7 Cold beer is better than warm beer, Ziegenbach!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#8 Billy Joe Shaver

#9 Getting free tickets from a new friend to go see Bob Schneider and the Bluegrass Explosion

#10 Sunday morning at the Gospel Tent

#11 The best Taco's in the World

#12 95 degrees isn't so bad

#12 Don't every stay at America's Best Inn

Acts we saw

Friday

Sahara Smith You sure she's only 18?

Asleep at The Wheel classic

Del McCoury and his band Top shelf Bluegrass

Bela Fleck and the Flecktones What is a synthaxe/drumitar?

Joss Stone, Surprised? We were just following the girls.

LCD Soundsystem What kind of music is that?? Kinda of grew on me.

James Hunter British R&B This man enjoys what he's doin

Reverand Horton Heat "It's martini time!"

Saturday

A lighter schedule due to the fact we thought we'd watch some football, mistake.

Steve Earle He's the one that doesn't well, never mind.

Kelly Willis The Homecoming Queen of Austin an Angel's voice

Cross Canadian Ragweed.. Keep on Rockin in the Free World!!!

Then went to a club and saw Bob Schneider and the Bluegrass Explosion "Outstanding"

Sunday

Started out at the Gospel Tent

Shields of Faith

Amy Cook

The Jones Family Singers

Grace Potter and the Nocturnals Hey Bill you got that number yet?

Charlie Musselwhite Delta blues on the harmonica

Patterson Hood I like him better with Drive By Truckers

Rose Hill Drive good old Rock n Roll

Billy Joe Shaver What else can I say?

Ziggy Marley "Love is My Religion" Looks like a lot of people agree!

Bob Dylan and his Band sorry Bob, had to go.

I will put out another posting about Mo in the next few days. Take Care of yourself be careful and have some fun!!

God Bless

Dale

In this life of care and woe

I have traveled many roads

I've had my share of misery and pain

When I found my life was lost

In my heart I carved a cross

And sealed it with a song I'm liven to sing

Don't you worry about a thing

Jesus Christ is still the King

He has brought you from the darkness to the light

Don't you threaten don't you doubt

You will never be without

Don't you worry Jesus Christ is still the same

Laugh and Dance and Jump and run

Have yourself a world of fun

Jesus Christ has broke the chains and set you free

Be a light unto the world

All you little boys and girls

Keep on smilin, Jesus Christ is still the King!!!!!!

Jesus Christ is still the King by Billy Joe Shaver

"At times I'm a voice crying in the wilderness, but at times I'm right on the money and I know what I'm singing about. It's about sharing, praise, worship, wonder, and wisdom. So share in the joy here and maybe the rest will follow for all of us."

Johnny Cash

P.S. I've already entered the lottery for next years tickets, so if you're not doing anything in September?

9-8-07

2007-09-09T07:11:00.001-07:00

Some of you had requested a picture of Mojo, here you go. This is one of her High School graduation pictures.

We got her chair fixed, again. Hopefully she will be more comfortable in it now. She bit her lip again which happens occasionally. Other than that no changes in her condition. Please keep praying for us.

"Some lessons learned are hard, some are easy. The harder ones teach us what the easy ones can't."

"All the hollerin makes me wonder, does a whispered prayer get heard?"

Drive By Truckers

I will be heading out this week to Austin Texas for the Austin City Limits musicfest. 300 bands 8 stages. Should be a good time. Hopefully the Hawkeyes will stay undefeated while I'm gone.

Keep prayin, loud or soft.

God Bless

Dale

P.S. Happy Anniversary Mary. 9-8-79

9-4-07

2007-09-04T16:49:00.000-07:00

Hawkeye tailgate and the Chicago skyline

Burke

Brent

Dale

Tailgating

Nice finger, Sharon

Hawks take the field at Soldier Field in Chicago

Moriah seemed to have a little bit better week. She seemed a bit more alert and had better focus in her eyes. She did however break the head gear on her wheelchair again. Maybe she's trying to escape. Other than that no major changes in her condtions. Once again many thanks to those of you who have visited her and prayed for us. Don't underestimate the power of your actions. It means a great deal to me.

Labor Day weekend in Chicago was great. Went to the Cubs game on Friday, sat in the Bartman seats but couldn't get bring the Cubbies through as they got waxed by the Astro's. Visited Navy Pier that evening for dinner and the Hawkeye huddle. Then a evening of Jazz which was very cool.
Saturday visited the shores of Lake Michigan, the marina area, and a long walk to Soldier Field. Personally I liked the old stadium better, except for the benches. Great seats and the Hawks won ugly 16 to 3 over Northern Illinois.
Great City
Great Company
Stayed at the Burnham Hotel in downtown Chicago which I believe was the first steel and glass "skyscraper" built around the turn of the century. All 13 stories of it. If any of you have read "Devil in the White City" you would be familiar with this building and Charles Burnham, the chief architect of the buildings for the Chicago Worlds fair in 1894. Very Cool.

Taking it easy this week in Iowa City, then onto Austin, Tx next week for the Austin City Limits music festival.

"Make no little plans"
Charles H. Burnham

But there is a road to glory,
Somewhere hidden in the past,
Behind the door,
Behind the treasure,
Behind the mask.
"Road to Glory!" Ozark Mtn Daredevils

Show me thy ways, O Lord; teach me my paths.
Psalm 25 v4

Hope you all are on the right road and hope to see you along the way.
God Bless
Peace
Dale

2007-08-29T18:06:00.000-07:00

Rock and siding.

Progress.

Jawon and Dale at the overlook on Lake of the Ozarks

Dale let's go swimmin

Dale can we go swimmin??

Jawon and his Catfish

King of the Hill

Jawon next to the new house at Lake of the Ozarks

Lake Ada from Harry's front door.

Nothing new to report on Moriah's condition. She did have another toenail removed and is battling a slight infection. Antibiotics should take care of it. Jawon and I visited her several times over the past week. Watching a five year old talk to her in this situation, and listening to his honesty and innocence was heart warming and heart breaking.

We had a great week both in Iowa City and at the Lake. Lot's of hours fishing, tubing, swimming, and only the cartoon network allowed on the television. We were joined by old friend Nathan Banchik and his wife Connie. Great to have them their. The weather and the scenery were outstanding.

It reminds me of the old Einstien quote,

"Their are only two ways to live your life, One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is a miracle" I know which one I would pick.

A five year old certainly keeps thing in perspective.

"Hey Dale, look the sky is makin a sunset. Do you think Mary is up there?"

Then he wondered why I was crying.

I am a blessed man.

I will be spending the weekend in Chicago with a group of Iowa City friends and Hawkeye fans. Cubs game on Friday and then we will watch the Hawkeyes play Northern Illinois at Soldier Field on Saturday. Should be a great weekend. Enjoy your holiday. Don't work to hard if you have to work on Labor Day. Ironic isn't it?

Keep the Faith

God Bless

Dale

8-21-07

2007-08-21T06:37:00.000-07:00

Moriah visited the UIHC yesterday for a CT scan and review with her Neuro Surgeon. Unfortunately I do not have anything positive to report. Her brain looks fairly normal and the shundt is working properly. The injury to her neck and lack of activity has caused a slight bend in her head position. Not much visible damage to the brain from the pictures. Basically she's still stuck. I continue to pray that the Lord will take care of her.

Cody and Luke Nichols and "Uncle Dale" above

I had a busy week of travel and visits. Started with my Mom and Dad in Eau Claire along with brother Jim and his family.

Then it was on to St Cloud to visit sister Sus and family and a get together with Mary's sister Jayne and husband Ron and old friends Joe and Cindy Helm. We were joined by Kathy Baack who is and old friend of Jayne and Mary's and was in both of our wedddings. Great to see all of you.

Then I headed for Lake Ada and a weekend with friends Harry and Lois Robbins and other members of the Lake Ada neighborhood. Fishing was quiet but I did manage a 4 inch Northern! And oh yeah the Harriet Club still rocks!!!

I was planning on spending more time in Minnesota but my plans changed due to some appointments for Moriah. So I hope to see you on my next trip North.

I picked up Jawon Sunday in St Paul and headed back to Iowa City. We will head to the Lake on Thursday for some fun.

I lift up my eyes to the hills--where does my help come from?

Psalm 121 v1

Keep the Faith.

Peace

Dale

8-13-07

2007-08-13T16:58:00.001-07:00

Here's Mo and her Dad. I think this was just before her baptism. Of course Mary made the gown. Nice orange Menards shirt!! 1982

Moriah remains in virtually the same condition. The Ambien has not had any noticeable affect as of yet. We have some CT scans and MRI's scheduled for next week on a trip back to UIHC. I wouldn't expect any major changes but I will let you know if anything comes out of the tests.
We continue to hope and pray. Thank you for your interest and your prayers.

Moriah's condo has sold so at least that's one less thing to worry about. I gotta tell you, moving her stuff out and going through it was well, it was a #@&***!! day.

I'm heading to Wisconsin tomorrow and then on to Minnesota on Thursday. I will be back in Iowa City on the 19th with Jawon. We will spend a few days here and then head to the Lake for a long weekend.

I continue to be amazed by the thoughts and prayers of everyone. I am so blessed to have you all out there.

His compassions never fail. They are new every morning.
Lamentations 3 v22

Have a great week.
God Bless
Dale

8-2-07

2007-08-02T06:57:00.000-07:00

"God's Medal of Honor winners are made in secret because their most courageous acts occur away from the hurricane of public opinion, up in the attic, hidden from public knowledge."

Moriah's chair has been fixed. Hopefully this will keep her more comfortable while sitting up in the chair. Danielle and I spent a couple of hours with her yesterday and she seemed aware and comfortable. No other major changes at this time.

My prayers and thoughts are with all of my friends in the Twin Cities.

Danielle and I are heading to the lake today. We will have a get together at Old Chicago in Coralville on Tuesday the 7th at 6 o'clock. Stop by if you can.

I dug up a diamond
rare and fine
I dug up a diamond in a deep dark mine
If only I could cling to my beautiful find
I dug up a diamond in a deep dark mine

My gem is special beyond all worth
as strong as any metal
or stone in the earth
sharp as any razor
or blade you can buy
bright as any laser
or any star in the sky

Maybe once in a lifetime
you'll hold one in your hand
once in a lifetime
in this land
where the journey ends
in a worthless claim
time and again
in the mining game

Maybe in your lifetime you'll hold one in your hand
Where the journey ends
time and again in the mining game

"I Dug Up A Diamond" written by Mark Knopfler
Album All The Roadrunning Mark Knopfler and Emmylou Harris

This song totally blew me away. Gunner told me to go buy this album and I just did. Wow!!

Hope you find your diamond
God Bless
Dale

7-30-07

2007-07-30T12:22:00.001-07:00

Flathead Catfish

35 pounds 45" long

caught and released off my dock

11:oo p.m. 7-27-07

shingled and getting ready for siding

doors and windows are in

My first week off was an eventful one!!!!!

I returned back from the lake on Sunday afternoon. Had a good couple of days, good food, good company, and caught a nice ol catfish. Thanks to Harry and Lois for all their help. You certainly are a generous couple. Moriah seemed a little bit more aware on Sunday when I visited her as she had a little bit different look in her eyes. She is a battling a little bit of congestion but doesn't appear to be too serious. We should have new wheelchair parts shortly so that should make her more comfortable while sitting up. Her left eye also looked much better than last week. Maybe just maybe something good is coming. Our hope and faith continues to give us support.

Peace is the ability to wait patiently in spite of panic brought on by uncertainty.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.

John 14 v27

Danielle will be here later in the week and we will be heading to the lake with some of her friends. Have a great week.

God's peace to all of you.

Dale

7-25-07

2007-07-25T19:45:00.000-07:00

Hey Aiden, nice fish.

Well we've solved some of Mo's wheelchair issues and should have some new parts and attatchments next week that should help out. We spent some time outside today and she seemed fairly comfortable on our walk around the property. Nothing else major to report.

Congrats to Bobby and Bobbie who were married over the weekend. Good to see all of you. Mary and I were witness's for their courthouse wedding a week or so before the accident. Best wishes!!!

I'm heading out tomorrow to the lake with Hawkeye Harry and Lois from Lakeville Mn. Have a great week.

God Bless

Dale

7-19-07

2007-07-19T07:31:00.000-07:00

We're still battling the wheelchair. Kind of a long story, but hopefully we will have a new chair for her shortly and we can get her in it more often. We have started Moriah on Ambien, which as you probably know is a sleeping pill. There has been some limited success with this in coma patients. They don't know why it works but the theory is that it puts the patient in some form of a sleep and wake cycle. It does appear at times that Mo doesn't sleep too well, so hopefully this will help her at least be more comfortable. One day at a time. Just keep prayin for us.

My last day at work is tomorrow. I guess I would say that I'm somewhere between excited and apprehensive. It's never easy to leave something that you've put 30 years into. Most of August will be spent at the lake and in Iowa City and hopefully a trip to Minnesota and Wisconsin. Hope to see you along the way. I'll try to keep you up to date as to what I will be doing. I've got a few trips planned and hope to relax both physically and mentally and sort out what I will do in the future. Again I thank you for keeping us in your prayers.

Please remember the Trumbull family in your prayers, former Galway Hills neighbors as they face Ray's fight with cancer.

"I want to be like Jesus Christ, keep the party movin, and give good advice"
Bob Schneider

Pay it forward
God Bless
Peace
Dale

7-13-07

2007-07-13T17:16:00.000-07:00

Tres Senoritas!!!!! Danielle flanked by her partners in crime, Miranda on the left, Jessica on the right. See you in August girls!!

Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will be doing the work of the Lord.

Galatians 6 v2

Thanks to all of you have that have helped me along the way.

Not much new with Mojo's condition. She will have a trip to UIHC next week for a minor procedure on her stomach. We are having difficulities with her wheelchair. It is very difficult to adjust. Must have been developed by a rocket scientist! We're going to try some different adjustments so that she can be more comfortable while sitting in it. We want her up in the chair as much as possible so it's important that we get one that fits her well. We're also looking at an experimental drug(more on that at a later date)

The house has shingles, sorry that I don't have any new pictures but that will come later also.

Wow, one week of work left,

"Start a new chapter to find what I'm after is changing every day"

"The change of a season is enough of a reason to want to get away"

"Quiet an pensive my thoughts apprehensive the hours drift away"

"Flying a lone hand I've got to get away"

Fly By Night

Rush

My next few months are filling up fast, hope to see you along the way.
God Bless
Peace
Dale

7-1-07

2007-07-01T16:27:00.000-07:00

I miss you Gunner!! John Ewalt 1956-2006

Here's one of Gunner's favorite songs

If you could use a change of pace

Be excused from the rat race

Just take a look at what's on view

Lace em up

Walk around

I guarantee you can't wear them down

You're gonna need a quality shoe!

I wish you sunny skies and happiness

Wherever you may go

But you've got to realize

there will be wind

there will be rain

and occasional snow

You're gonna want to smile and then

If you're going to walk a mile in them

There'll be times when you'll be blue

To laugh at rainy days and then

Make you get a ways and then

You're gonna need a quality shoe!

"Quality Shoe" From Mark Knopfler's "Ragpickers Dream"

Moriah seemed a little more alert this past week. She has battled an ear infection but that seems to be behind her now. I had her outside on several occasions the past week. We will be heading to the hospital shortly to have a procedure done on her tube, which is pretty routine, although nothing really seems routine does it. Just keep prayin for us.

I enjoyed a great Saturday of music with friends Brian and Darlene at Fitzgerald's in Chicago. Live music continues to be a great escape and therapy for me. What a great place and great people!

Thanks to all the musicians also

Bob Schneider and Band
The Marcia Ball Band
BeauSoleil
Sleepy LaBeef
Tony Joe White
Bob Margolin
Napoleon "Nappy" Brown

God Bless all of you, enjoy the 4th of July Holiday and,
God Bless America

Peace
Dale

6-18-07

2007-06-18T16:21:00.000-07:00

Update on the House @ Lake of the Ozarks, should have a roof soon.

Windows in viewing wall are in!!! Man good help is hard to find!

The Master bedroom

Yours truly looking out the master bathroom

Be careful Ski Cat!!!!

Out the master bath, before wall was installed

Roof framing is up.

Hope all you Father's had a great day!!

We had another trip to the podiatrist on Wednesday. Moriah had her other big toe fixed and everything looks like it is healing very well. Medically she continues to do well, however no major responses as of yet. She remains in the same condition as the past few weeks. She seems to have been a little quieter the last couple of weeks. We continue to pray that she gets unstuck!! Thank you to all of you who continue to remember us in your thoughts and prayers.

"Everyone then who hears these words of mine and acts on them will be like a wise man who built his house on rock. The rain fell, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on rock."

Matthew 7 v24,25

Keep on the sunny side.

Peace

God Bless

Dale

6-6-07

2007-06-06T06:26:00.001-07:00

Here's the plaque that will be placed by the sidewalk in Galway Hills in honor of Mary. We will have it installed and a gathering sometime in August.

Moriah had to make a trip back to the podiatrist to get her ingrown toe nails fixed again. This time we did a permanent procedure so that they won't grow back. She seemed to handle the procedure ok and was resting comfortably when I saw her last evening. Other than that, no changes.

I have submitted my request for a leave of absence beginning at the end of July. I'm planning on taking about 4 months off and then returning to work in December. Hope to see you along the road during this period. My goal is to take some trips, work on the house, watch some football, listen to some music, catch some fish, and see the greatest group of family and friends ever.

Peace

God Bless

Dale

5-31-07

2007-05-31T06:55:00.000-07:00

The setting of the main beam and trusses on the house in Missouri. Hopefully it will quit raining for awhile.

Here's Jawon on his last visit to Iowa City.

No major changes with Mojo's condition over the past week. She seems to be over the intestinal virus that she was fighting over the few weeks. She was resting comfortably when I visited her yesterday. Just keep fightin and prayin.

Danielle will be home tomorrow for about a week. Hope to see some of you over the weekend.

I continue to count my blessings daily.

Until next time,

God Bless

Dale

5-15-07

2007-05-15T06:41:00.000-07:00

Moriah has been fighting a bacteria condition in her digestive system. She has been on antibiotics for the last week. She finally was up in her chair again yesterday and looked better than the previous days. Hopefully she's over this. Other than that, no changes in her medical condtion. She remains stable, somewhat alert, but still unresponsive for the most part. Please keep praying for her.

I hope everyone had an enjoyable Mother's Day. It truly is the most important job in the world. I played golf for the first time in a long time. Actually hit a couple of good shots. Thanks to Jim and Joe for getting me out.

The scholarship fund is now open. If you would like to contribute you may send your donation directly to,

P.E.O. Executive Office
3700 Grand Avenue
Des Moines, Ia. 50312

Checks need to be made out to the P.E.O. Foundation and tagged for "Mary Reiman Memorial Scholarship Fund of Iowa City. If you have any questions let me know.

We are also looking into annual fundraisers to grow the fund, such as a Golf Event etc.. If you have any input on this or ideas feel free to contact me.

Danielle will be home during the first week in June. Thanks to the Madsens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can't wait to see her.

Should be getting the roof up on the house in Missouri in the next week or so.

My apologies for not doing a posting sooner. I'm going to try to do one a week or so. Thanks to all of you that remember us in your prayers. It does make a difference.

Life is not only Struggles
but Rewards
Not only Tragedies
but Triumphs
Not only Confusion
but Clarity
Not only Grief
but Joy
Not only Distress
but Comfort
Not only Violence
but Peace
Not only Hate
but Love
Not only Evil
but the Grace of The Lord

Oh the paradox of life!!
Have a great week.
Peace
God Bless
Dale

5-2-07

2007-05-02T20:44:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone, thought you might enjoy some pics of the House in Missouri, we're moving along well.

Moriah has battled a little bit of diarrhea this week and was not very happy when I first arrived this morning. She looked much better after a shower and was up in her chair looking relaxed. They will be doing some tests to see if she has some kind of bug etc. She still seems to express some discomfort and anguish more than anything. There is some emotion there so that gives us some hope that we will see some improvements but as you all I'm sure know, there are no guarantees of any kind.

The Mary Reiman Memorial Scholarship Fund of Iowa City is almost ready to start accepting funds. We will be using some of the original memorial fund money that you all graciously gave to start this. Mary's parents have matched the amount. Thanks be to God!! This will be a scholarship through PEO which Mary was a member of. It will be awarded on an annual basis to a deserving Iowa City West or City High Senior Female who will be attending college. I won't go into the requirements but a committee is being established through PEO to make this award. If you would like to contribute to this fund you can send checks to me at my local address. The checks need to be made out to the PEO Foundation and tag your check to the afformentioned title. This will be a fund that will be open to contributions at anytime. What another cool thing!!

Dale Reiman

2119 Norcor Ave #5

Coralville, Ia. 52241

In the future I believe you will be able to send funds directly to PEO. This is a tax deductible contribution..

Who would of thunk??

I'm heading to the lake for a couple of days.

Happy Birthday to Jawon who will be 5

And to Brent Nichols who will be ?!@#@!??????

God Bless

Peace

Happy Trails

Dale

4-25-07

2007-04-25T18:10:00.000-07:00

Not a lot new to report on Moriah's conditon. Since returning from the hospital last week she has looked pretty good. She did have a couple of issues with the antibiotics that she was on, but nothing major. Her responses continue to be about the same and are not consistent. We seem to get reponses at times but really don't know to what extent she understands us, but I can tell you that at times she seems distressed and at other times seems more comfortable. It sure doesn't get any easier, but as Jimmy Cliff would say "My faith and my heart will see me through"

The dedication of the piano went well. I would put this in another one of those "very cool but not what I wish I was doing categories." The old adage that tragedy can produce good things is certainly true in this case. I would like to thank all of you who helped contribute to this memorial. Also to the following people who attended, it really means a lot.
The members of Christ the King Lutheran(you know who you are)
Claude and Verna Van Driel (Mary's parents)
Jayne and Ron Peterson (Mary's sister and husband)
Bette Krause (Mary's sister)
Brent, Chris, Luke, and Cody Nichols
Bob and Dawn Stewart and those two cute girls
Dick, Nancy, and Maureen Perkins.
Pastor Dave for your idea, and your thoughtful words.
To the rest of you who were there in spirit.

DEDICATION OF THE PIANO
Brothers and sisters in Christ: Today we seek God's blessing as we gather with thankfulness to set apart this piano to his glory. God has given us the gift of music, and to Him we sound our praise.
Sixteen months ago, on December 26, 2005, we were first shocked and then greatly saddened by the death of Mary Reiman. As with the other members of our congregation who have passed through the gate of death to life with Christ forever, we do not need to look far to see the hand of Mary in our congregation. She left us with many memories and much of her handiwork. If one were to stand in the middle of the door to the nave and turn in a circle, one would see Mary's handiwork in almost every direction: upholstery of our chairs, liturgical paraments, furniture, the youth loft, basement rooms. We are thankful to God for Mary's gifts and to Mary for her sharing so generously her gifts with us. Today it is with great thankfulness that we dedicate the Yamaha baby grand piano in her memory and to the glory of God. Through the music that will come to us from this piano the gospel of Jesus Christ, in which she so firmly believed, will continue to be proclaimed. We thank Mary's husband, Dale; her daughters, Moriah and Danielle; her parents Claude and Verna VanDriel; and the many people who contributed to her memorial fund for making this gift possible. To God be the glory forever and ever.

Psalm 150
Halleluia! Praise God in His 'holy temple;*
praise Him in the firmament 'of His power.
Praise Him for His 'mighty acts;*
praise Him for His ex'cellent greatness.
Praise Him with the blast 'of the ram's horn;*
praise Him with 'lyre and harp.
Praise Him with tim'brel and dance;*
praise Him with 'strings and pipe.
Praise Him with re'sounding cymbal;*
praise Him with loud-'clanging cymbals.
Let everything 'that has breath*
praise the Lord. 'Halleluia! (Mary loved cymbals, drums, and was a notorious tambourine player!)

Ephesians 5:18b-20
But be filled with the Spirit, as you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Sing with joy to God our strength;
and raise a loud shout to the God of Jacob
Raise a song and sound the timbrel,
the merry harp, and the lyre.
Blessed are You, O Lord our God, king of the universe. You have made the whole earth after Your glory; all Your creatures praise You. We lift our voices to join the sounds and song of heaven and earth, of things seen and unseen, in praise of Your Glory. You alone do great wonders, and by Your wisdom You made the heavens and the earth. All living things give You praise. You have breathed Your breath of mercy into Your children, to hear from them a joyful shout with their own song. In the fullness of time, O God, You sang Your new song, our Lord Jesus Christ, who is exalted by poets, musicians, and all Your siants. Your Spirit is the breath of our music and song. Be with us now and bless us as we dedicate this piano to Your praise and glory Enrich the lives of Your people through it, and grant us faith to hear Your gracious purpose in it. By Your Holy Spirit, let this piano enliven the proclamation of Your Word to the building up of Your Church, to the glory of Your name, and to the good of all Your people; through Jesus Christ, Your Son, our Lord, through all ages of ages.
Amen.

Well said, well said.

We are close to finalizing the details on the other memorial which will be a scholarship fund through PEO. I will give you the details when they are a done deal.

Peace
God Bless
Dale

4-19-07

2007-04-19T06:01:00.000-07:00

Moriah spent a couple of nights at UIHC. It ended up being a bronchial bacterial infection of some sort. She looked a 100% better after they treated her with antibiotics and cleaned out the gunk. She probably looked as bad as she has when I arrived on Sunday evening. Monday morning at the hospital she looked about as good as she has. Hopefully we won't have to battle this again but, without her having the ability to cough and clear her throat and blow her nose it could become problematic.

Hope to see you soon.
God Bless
Dale

4-16-07

2007-04-16T06:54:00.000-07:00

A quick update
Moriah had a tough weekend and we ended up putting her in the hospital on Sunday evening. Most likely it's a touch of pneumonia. I'll let you know what I find out as I'm heading to the hospital shortly.

The dedication for the baby grand piano in Mary's honor, will be at the beginning of the 11 o'clock service this coming Sunday the 22nd @ 11 o'clock at Christ The King Lutheran Church in Iowa City. Hope to see many of you there.

God Bless
Dale

4-10-07

2007-04-10T16:00:00.000-07:00

Moriah is basically in the same condition. She did react to some sounds and movements today when I visited her so I cranked up the Bob Marley CD and it seemed to startle her. She continues to fight the good fight. No major medical issues at this time. Many thanks to those of you who visited her while I was gone especially,
Dar
Connie
Maureen and Katherine
Dick and Nancy Perkins
My parents
Pastor Dave
Once again, where would I be without all of you? As Jawon would say "I'm being serious here" Seriously, You all really need to ask yourselves that question. All of you that have helped us are so very important.

The week in Missouri went well. We started out lathering sun screen on and finished up wearing gloves and stocking hats. It was a great experience and I don't think I was in the way too much. We have the basement framed and decked and all of the first floor framing is in. I am so pleased with how this is going to look. Basically, it's awesome!! Thanks to the crew who helped get it going.
Laird "The Big Kahuna" Pogones
"Bobney Dangerfield" Dingbaum
Pat "Ski Cat" Green
Jim "Maple Leaf" Knowles
And yours truly, Dale "The Slave Driver" Reiman. Suppose I'll get suspended for that!??!?!

Keep prayin and keep fightin.

What gain have the workers from their toil? I have seen the business that God has given to everyone to be busy with. He has made everything suitable for its time; moreover he has put a sense of past and future into their minds, yet they cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. I know that there is nothing better for them than to be happy and enjoy themselves as long as they live; moreover, it is God's gift that all should eat and drink and take pleasure in all their toil. I know that whatever God does endures forever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it; God has done this, so that all should stand in awe before him. That which is, already has been; that which is to be, already is; and God seeks out what has gone by.
Ecclesiastes C3 v9-15

God Bless
Dale

4-1-07

2007-03-31T19:45:00.000-07:00

I will be heading out tomorrow to begin construction on the new home in the Ozarks. Looks like the weather may finally cut us a break.

Moriah's condition has not changed. She still gives us hope. Thank you to all that have visited her and have kept her in your thoughts and prayers.

Have a blessed Easter!!!!

The dedication of the piano is tentatively scheduled for April 22nd. I will let you know the details as I get them.

Have an outstanding week.
God Bless
Dale

P.S. The Hawkeyes seem unwilling to grant me an interview for the head coaching position. I'd take less than 1.5 million!! What a bargain they are passing up.

3-27-07

2007-03-27T17:32:00.000-07:00

Not a lot new with Mo. She has moved rooms. She is now in room 203 on Bounce Back Court. Sure hope that means something. She has slid out of her bed a couple of times the past couple of weeks so they are looking at installing rails on the bed which could cause some problems. Her bed is low so it's not real dangerous. I wonder if she's not trying to escape! Her congestion is better and we've had her outside a few times with the warm weather. Man oh Man, what a battle.

The start of the house has been pushed back due to weather(rain). Just another lesson that we're really not in control of everything. I will be heading down at the end of this weekend and will spend next week hangin out in the Ozarks.

I have applied for the coaching vacancy at the University of Iowa but as of yet have not been able to garner an interview. At least I'd be fun to watch.

May those who sow in tears reap with shouts of joy.
Psalm 126 v5

May the hope of spring refresh your soul.
Peace
God Bless
Dale

3-16-07

2007-03-16T09:58:00.000-07:00

No major changes with Moriah over the past week or so. She is still fighting some congestion which seems to make her uncomfortable. Her reactions have been slight, but when I enter the room and say Hi, she usually opens her eyes. We continue to hope and pray and have faith in what the Lord has planned for her. It's hard for me to believe that it has been 15 months since this happened. I continue to be touched by all of your thoughts and prayers. Thank you for not giving up on us. Again, where would I be without all of you.

The piano has been delivered to Christ the King. It is as beautiful as Mary. I wish I knew how to play it. This is not something I did. This was done through the contributions of friends and family. Many thanks, it is truly an awesome memorial.

Jawon and I had a great week together. His view of the world continues to amaze me. The dirt pile at the house in the Ozarks was a great source of entertainment for him. The foundation is in and we will begin framing in a week or so(weather permitting) He is now living in St Paul Mn. Sure hope he doesn't turn into a Gopher fan!!!!! He informed me that if you have two candles lit in the bathroom it must really stink. And when I started to laugh at what he said, his reply was "I'm being serious here" Please pray for him and his family as they start a new journey.

I took in another John Prine concert with old friend Rob Hagen on Saturday. It was great! It's truly refreshing to watch a musician that enjoys what he's doin.

"I'm tired of runnin round lookin for answers to questions
that I already know
I could build me a castle with memories, just
to have somewhere to go"
Song Clay Pigeons from John Prine's Grammy award winning album
"Fair and Square"

The new job is ok. It is nice to be relieved of the day to day mental drain and decision making, refereeing, problem solving, damage control etc. It is also weird after almost 30 years of management.

Make me to know your ways,
O Lord;
teach me your paths.
Lead me in your truth, and teach
me,
for you are the God of my
salvation;
for you I wait all day long.
Psalm 25 v4-5

God Bless
Keep the Faith
Don't give up the fight
Peace
Dale

3-5-07

2007-03-05T19:49:00.000-08:00

Just thought I'd give every one a short update as it will probably be a week or so before I return to the blog.

Nothing new unfortunately with Mo. Her congestion is better. Jawon and I visited her several times the last few days.

We can always pray if we don't know what else to do. It may seem fruitless but all is heard and the power of prayer should never be under estimated. The silence that is felt is heard by the Lord.
unknown author

Start a new chapter to find what I'm after is changing everyday
The start of a season is enough of a reason to want to get away
Quiet and pensive my thoughts apprehensive the hours drift away
Leaving my homeland flying a lone hand my life begins today

"Fly By Night" Rush

Gunner and I first listened to this song as juniors in high school. We wore out the record.

My last day was today at Menards in Iowa City. I'm not sure how I feel but know that I have done the right thing. I will start up in Cedar Rapids on the 12th. Heading to the lake tomorrow with Jawon. I picked him on Saturday and will have him through Friday when I will take him to Minnesota.

A funny story
Jawon and I attended church on Sunday. He really has never been comfortable there since the accident. He views it as the place where we said goodbye to Mary which in itself is a pretty percept thought for a 4 year old. He was doing well in church reading his books and drawing etc. When it came time for communion I told him we needed to go up front for the blessing and to take my hand and everything would be ok. He went up front fine, received the blessing and then we returned to our seats. He was sad and put his coat on bundled up and wanted to leave. He started crying and pouting and wouldn't talk to me. We left after church and he didn't want to talk to anybody and cried off and on. When we got to the car he started crying more and I told him he needed to tell me what was wrong or I couldn't help him. He said, "that guy up front gave everyone a piece of cookie and juice except for me". He really is somethin else.

Sunday the 11th around 2 or so, there will be a get together at Old Chicago for some guy turnin 50. Have a great week.

God Bless all of you
Peace
Dale

2-28-07

2007-02-28T15:26:00.000-08:00

Moriah had a little problem with that left eye again, but it cleared up in a couple of days. She seems to be fighting a little bit of a cold (who isn't) but doesn't appear to be serious at this point. Her big brown eyes are still open a lot. Other than that not a lot new with her condition. Still looks good and hangin tough.

March 1st Mary's birthday
"When sundown pails the sky, I wanna hide awhile behind your smile,
Help me to leave my blues behind."
Donavon Leitch "Catch the Wind"

Friday March 2nd we will be gathering at The Vine in Coralville. I guess you can call this Dale's change of scenery get together. Any one is welcome, if you can, stop by and say Hi!!

Due to the weather my actual date of changing scenery has been delayed. I plan to take some time off and will start at the Cedar Rapids store on Monday 3-12. But who knows??

Old friends
New friends
Good friends
God bless all of you
Peace
Dale

2-22-07

2007-02-22T07:38:00.000-08:00

No major changes in Mojo's condition. She still has her eyes open during the day. Her toes seem to be healing well. She has gained a few pounds for the first time since the accident. They will keep an eye on that and if it continues will adjust her feeding accordingly. Thank you to all of you who have visited and to those of you who sent her Valentine's greetings. It does help a lot that you are all out there continuing your thoughts and prayers.

The house is underway in Missouri.
I most likely will be returning to regualr Joe employee life next week sometime. Should be a good mental break, as running a store with 150 (great) employees and dealing with the public has its moments. We'll see how this goes and I will leave my options open as to what I do in the future. My plan is to take the fall off and spend time with friends and family, traveling, concerts, at the lake, and of course football. Who knows where the road will lead to and what the Lord has planned.

We should have the piano purchased shortly. We will have a dedication at the Church at some point. I will let you know when that will happen.

"I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live up to what light I have"
Abraham Lincoln

Read 2 Corinthians 6:4-10

The journey continues
God Bless
Peace
Dale

2-11-07

2007-02-11T16:23:00.000-08:00

Moriah remains in virtually the same condition as the past couple of weeks. She has had her eyes open during the day on my visits. Her toes had kind of a rough couple of days to begin with but now are healing well. For those of you who continue to pray and to visit her I thank you. She continues to look pretty good despite her condition.

And if your neighbor cries out to me, I will listen, for I am compassionate. Exodus 25
Thanks to all of you for your compassion.

It appears that my little friend Jawon will be moving. I spent part of this weekend with him. He really puts things in perspective. Please pray for him and his family.

I'll be heading to the lake for a few days this week. Trying to get some house plans started. It's kind of a bittersweet adventure as Mary spent many hours planning a house down there. I'm still learning of the depth of her talents.

Also we will be purchasing a baby grand piano for Christ the King with the part of the memorial money that was donated in Mary's name. It will be a lasting memorial. Many thanks to all of you who had a part in this. I am also working on another memorial with the remaining funds. I'll let you know when that happens. Thanks to Claude and Verna and their generosity.

Which brings me to this. As you know Valentine's day is this week. I hope you all remember those that are close to you. I saw a reference to St Valentine and thought I'd try to find a little more as to where it all started. It is also believed by some that the first St Valentine was beheaded for refusing to deny his belief in Christ. Another mis(guided) understood holiday.

Have a great week. Squeeze your Valentine for me!!
God Bless
Dale

The biography of St. Valentine.
There are various accounts as to whom St Valentine was. It is said that there were two St Valentine's whom died at around the same time and are buried virtually in the same place at the Flaminian Way, both of these saints has been said to be the saint associated with the Patron Saint of Lovers "Saint Valentine".
The first of the Saints was considered to be a Roman Priest or Bishop of the Christian faith, who was also a physician and practiced his trade from his house. He was said to cure the sick of ailments, giving them special medicines or ointments. He was said to have done this out of the goodness of his heart sometimes refusing any payment whatsoever or accepting a loaf of bread or whatever could be spared by the sick. One Day the jailer bought his daughter to see Valentine, so as to see if she could have her sight gained and Valentine was said to have rubbed an ointment on her eyes and told the jailer to bring her back once a week to have the ointment rubbed on her eyes.
Every night he would pray under the dark of night for the sick to be cured. As a result of his beliefs he was arrested and thrown in jail. The jailer who could not do a thing went to see Valentine moments before he was to be executed at which point Valentine asked for a piece of paper and pen on the piece of paper it is said he was suppose to have written "from your Valentine" and inside the paper also was a blossom of which it is said gave the girl her sight.
The second of the Saints was said to have been a priest also, but, that he was secretly carrying out marriages of young lovers which under the Emperor Claudius II's laws at the time was forbidden, the reason being that Claudius did not want the men marrying because they must be able to concentrate on war and not their loved one.
Which ever story is true, today we celebrate St Valentine's Day by exchanging gifts such as cards, candy, flowers, etc. The reason why we celebrate it on February 14 is this was the day on which it is said that St Valentine was executed.

2-1-07

2007-02-01T20:48:00.001-08:00

I spent most of yesterday with Moriah and a trip to the podiatrist. She had to have a couple of in grown toenails taken care of. It went very well and she did great. She had plenty of blood flow in her toes which is a good sign that her circulation is ok. They were a little concerned about how the procedure would heal, but afterwards the doc was pleased with how it went. She continues to look good and every once in awhile I think she's going to start talking to me. Boy wouldn't that be great. As usual, many thanks for all of your prayers and thoughts.

My streak of watching the Hawkeye basketball team winning has come to an end. I even brought in my brother as a ringer from Wisconsin, but that didn't help. Stewie you get bragging rights for now.

I'm working on stepping out of my current position with Menards. I will most likely stay working at the store but in a different capacity. I'll have 30 years in at the end of March. I suppose that doesn't count as quitting. I've got some big plans for the year which include travel and building a house. It's just hard for me to believe that I'm doing this by myself. I guess we never know what the Lord has in store for us.

Jawon and I hung out last weekend and as usual he wore me out but we had a great time. His quote of the weekend.
Hey Dale where to Mandarin oranges come from??
Well let's see, looks like they are product of China.
Hey Dale do you know how to get to China?
No I don't
Well you take a left and keep driving until you get there.
I didn't realize it was quite that easy!

Words can't say everything that's why there's music.

Hope you are all enjoying your tunes.

Take Care
God Bless
Dale

2-1-07

2007-02-01T20:48:00.000-08:00

1-25-07

2007-01-25T07:27:00.000-08:00

Moriah has looked good on all my visits this week. No major medical issues at this time. Her left eye is still not quite 100%, but she has had her eyes open almost all the time during the day. She seems to respond occasionally to voices and touches. Man what a battle.

I checked out the movie "We are Marshall" I guess I now have a different perspective on loss. Escpecially when it's sudden and unexpected. It's a great story about what winning is really all about. Very touching.

Well this morning I decided to hit the random button on my I tunes program and see what song I came up with. Here it is

When this world's got me feeling low
I don't need nowhere else to go
Cuz I get all the love I need
From three little girls
In the garden collecting snails
Or on the bed readin fairy tails
I get all I ever need from three little girls

Cuz my worlds was sad and weary
All my days were winding down
Then you showed me a better way
My three little girls

Lord you put me to the test
Lead me through the wilderness
Then you showed me a brighter day

Mary Alice (inserted 3 different names)
Moriah Leigh
Danielle Christine
You take my breath away
My three little girls

Written by J.J. Cale with Eric Clapton
From the Album Road to Escondido

Wow not what I was expecting
Have a great weekend
Go Hawk's!!!!!!!! Hopefully they will beat the Badgers cuz I'll be there.

God's Peace
Dale

1-20-2007

2007-01-21T19:26:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday Moriah! #25
Thank you to all of you who remembered Mojo's birthday. She's hangin in there, looks good, and puttin up one hell of a fight.

I will sing to the Lord as long as I live;
I will sing praise to my God while I have being.

Peace
God Bless
Dale

1-12-07

2007-01-12T05:17:00.000-08:00

Moriah looked great yesterday and continues to remain in good condition medically. We continue to pray that she gets unstuck.

12-27-06
Cross planting for Mary

Attendees
Bob Stewart
Brent Nichols
Angela Hodges
Mark Kamps
Tim Madsen
Angie Madsen
Doug Warner
Laura Warner
Sid Rowland
Helen Ann Reed
Leonard Reiman
Anice Reiman
Danielle Reiman
Yours truly
Hope I didn't forget anyone.

"Life sure can be cruel"

Yeah I sang a little song

Oh I wish I were a baby bear sleepin in the brown
Winter grass in April while the sun is going down
I wish my shoes were empty and I was still in bed
Holdin you beside me with your dreams all in your head
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
I wish the wind would blow me blow me back to you

I wish your mom was ugly(sorry Verna)
And your dad was ugly too(sorry Claude)
Cuz then they couldn't have had a girl to be as beautiful as you
I wish I was a tight rope walker with legs made out of gold
I'd hold you in my golden legs and never let you go
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
I wish the world would blow me blow me back to you

I wish I could see Jesus shining in the sky
So he could finally tell me that this was just a lie
And I'm pretty sure that God's love is all I'll ever need
Along with all my friends we'll keep you in our dreams
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
And I wish the wind would blow me
Blow me back to you.
Words(most of them) by Bob Schneider

Mark Kamps lead us in the Lord's Prayer

Thanks to all that made this a very special event

More words of wisdom from Jawon

Hey Dale, can I stay with you since you don't have any friends??

Hey Dale can I tell you a story, it's kind of short,
Go ahead Jawon
"I love you"

Hey Dale, It sure is a nice day to get together.

Hey Dale I gotta an idea, let's watch Nemo!!!!!!!!

Safe travels to all
God Bless
Peace
Dale

2007-01-10T13:38:00.000-08:00

Here is the memorial service without my words that i posted a couple of days ago.
God Bless
Dale

CHRIST THE KING LUTHERAN CHURCH
325 Mormon Trek Blvd.
Iowa City, Iowa 52246
338-5236
December 27, 2006 A Service of Remembrance for Mary Reiman
A Service of Healing for Moriah Reiman

P: Grace to you and peace from God our father and from the Lord Jesus Christ.
C: Amen.

A reading from Psalm 121
I lift up my eyes to the hills - from where will my help come? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. He who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade at your right hand. The sun shall not strike you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all evil; he will keep your life. The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time on and forevermore.
A reading from Psalm 130
Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord. Lord, hear my voice! Let your ears be attentive to the voice of my supplications! If you, O Lord, should mark iniquities, Lord, who could stand? But there is forgiveness with you, so that you may be revered. I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in his word I hope; my soul waits for the Lord more than those who watch for the morning, more than those who watch for the morning. O Israel, hope in the Lord! For with the Lord there is steadfast love, and with him is great power to redeem. It is he who will redeem Israel from all its iniquities.
A reading from Romans 6:3-9
Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. We know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be destroyed, and we might no longer be enslaved to sin. For whoever has died is freed from sin. But if we have died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has dominion over him.

Readings from Mary’s funeral – Rex Spicer
Job 19:23-27a
"O that my words were written down! O that they were inscribed in a book! O that with an iron pen and with lead they were engraved on a rock forever! For I know that my Redeemer lives, and that at the last he will stand upon the earth; and after my skin has been thus destroyed, then in my flesh I shall see God, whom I shall see on my side, and my eyes shall behold, and not another.

1 Corinthians 15:51-57
Listen, I will tell you a mystery! We will not all die, but we will all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. For this perishable body must put on imperishability, and this mortal body must put on immortality. When this perishable body puts on imperishability, and this mortal body puts on immortality, then the saying that is written will be fulfilled: "Death has been swallowed up in victory." "Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?" The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
St. Matthew 11:25-30
At that time Jesus said, "I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father; and no one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal him. "Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

Meditation – Pastor David A. Aanonson
Text: 1 Corinthians 15:51-57
It has been one year and one day, one year and one day since we all, in one way or another, received the tragic news that Mary had been killed. It was a moment that changed our lives, forever changed our lives. We have all lost a friend that we know will never be replaced. For Dale and Danielle there is an emptiness that cannot ever be filled. For Moriah, well, for Moriah nothing has changed and that is so very, very tragic. Tonight we remember Mary and we pray for Moriah. For one year and one day Dale, Moriah, and Danielle you have been in my prayers, everyday for that one year and one day. This congregation has remembered Moriah every Sunday in its prayers for one year and one day. We pray that one day the prayers for healing will be prayers of rejoicing and thanksgiving.
Dale, you faith has been uplifting. As I have sought to give you strength, you have been the one who has given me strength. I believe that is probably true for so many others also. I have referred your blog to countless pastors and told them that they needed to read it. I thank you Dale for this gift to the rest of us and for putting your faith and your life together so very well.
I would like us to meditate for a few moments on the words of St. Paul in his first letter to the Corinthians, the fifteenth chapter. These words were read to you at Mary’s funeral and also earlier this evening. The fourteenth and fifteenth chapters of this book are so very inspirational. St. Paul is writing about the resurrection of the dead. He proclaims the resurrection as the victory of Christ over sin, death, and the devil. He proclaims total victory. Death is decimated; to be no more. God speaks His promise to us through St. Paul in these words. Those who have died will be raised to new life in Christ. What was perishable will be raised as imperishable, as St. Paul proclaims. "Lo! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed." God raised Christ from death and proclaimed victory over death for all eternity. Because of a baptismal promise made to Mary many years ago by God, I believe beyond any shadow of a doubt that Mary is now in Christ and shares with Christ in His victory over death. It is in this that we have our hope. Mary has inherited God’s promise. Over this St. Paul raises a shout of victory, "Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is thy victory? O death, where is thy sting? …thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." So it is for Mary and so it is for us. Death has not been victorious. Even as Mary has inherited the promise, we now await the fulfillment of the promise for us. Yet, Mary is not separated from us. Whether we live or whether we die we are in Christ. In Christ, we are yet together with one another and with Mary.
I would like to close with some words that I read on a recent blog, Dale, apparently they are words on an anniversary card given to you by Mary in 1994. So when you look ahead to future changes or think about how the past used to be, don’t forget to look beside you, because that’s where you’ll find me…. I am sure that each of you, in some way, feels Mary to be beside you everyday. But, you, of course, realize that those same words could have been said by our Lord Jesus Christ. He is always beside you and will carry you through this and all other challenges and tragedies in your life. Again, the words of St. Paul, this time from Romans, Who then shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? … No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. ... nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Remarks – Dale Reiman (1-6-07 blog)

Prayers in remembrance of Mary
[P] Almighty God, source of all mercy and giver of comfort: Deal Graciously, we pray, with those who mourn, that, casting all their sorrow on You, they may know the consolation of Your love; through Your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
[P] Eternal God, You gave Mary a new birth in Baptism and entrusted her to us for a time that seems too short. As we thank You for the life we shared, help us now to release her to Your mighty keeping. Bring us all to that day when we shall stand in Your presence with all Your saints in light eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
[P] With reverence and affection we remember before You, O everlasting God, all our departed friends and relatives. Keep us in union with them here through faith and love toward You, that hereafter we may enter into Your presence and be numbered with those who serve You and look upon Your face in glory everlasting, through Your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
[P] O most loving Father, You want us to give thanks for all things, to fear nothing except losing You, and to lay all our cares on You, knowing that You care for us. Grant that no clouds in this mortal life may hide from us the light of Your immortal love shown to us in Your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
[P] Merciful Creator, Your Holy Spirit intercedes for us even when we do not know how to pray. Send Your spirit now to comfort us in these days of need and loss, and help us to commend Mary to Your merciful care; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.

Prayers of healing for Moriah
[P] Let us pray for all who suffer.
[P] Merciful Lord, You sent Your Son to be our peace, Help all who suffer pain or grief to find in Him strength and peace, so that their trust in Your promises may be renewed; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
[P] We are here in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, who restored the sick to health and who Himself suffered for our sake. He is present among us still to heal and to make whole. We entrust our sister, Moriah, to the grace and power of Jesus Christ, that the Lord may ease her suffering and grand her health and salvation.
A reading from Luke 4:40
When the sun was setting, the people brought to Jesus all who had various kinds of sickness, and laying His hands on each one, He healed them.
[P] I lay my hands upon You in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, beseeching Him to uphold You and fill You with grace, that You may know the healing power of His love.
[C] Amen.
[P] Moriah, I anoint you with oil in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
[C] Amen.
[P] Holy and blessed Trinity, sustain Your servant Moriah with Your presence; drive away sickness from her body and spirit; and give her that victory of life and peace which will enable her to serve You now and evermore.
[C] Amen.
[P] Let us pray.
[P] Merciful Lord God, constant source of all healing, we give You thanks for all Your gifts of strength and life, and above all we thank You for the gift if Your Son, through whom we have health and salvation. As we wait for that day when there will be no more pain, help us by Your Holy Spirit to be assured of Your power in our lives and to trust in Your eternal love; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
[C] Amen.
THE LORD'S PRAYER
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name,
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive
those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory,
forever and ever. Amen

The BENEDICTION
P: The Lord bless you and keep you. The Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord look upon you with favor and give you peace.
C: Amen

1-6-07

2007-01-06T18:32:00.000-08:00

My apologies that it has been over a week since the last posting.
Moriah still looks good and is in pretty much the same condition. I did seem to get her eyes to follow me a little bit while visiting her today. The battle continues.

I'm going to post my words from the prayer service last week. I will post the rest of the service and the cross planting next week some time. I re-read this tonight, must have been some inspiration given to me. Here it is, you will have to picture me speaking and struggling and stopping many times to regain my composure. It was much harder than I thought it would be, but also I needed to say these things.

Memorial/Prayer service for Moriah and Mary Reiman 12-27-06

I sure hope I can get through this so please bare with me. It is impossible for me to believe that it has been a year since our lives were changed forever. In the past year I lost my wife and best friend from my adult years and my best friend from my childhood. I'm sure if Gunner and Mary have met that he is probably getting quite a lecture. Also as you know we continue to pray for Moriah's recovery.

In Ecclesiastes Chapter 3 v 4 it says,

a time to weep and a time to laugh
a time to mourn and a time to dance

This tells us that it is ok to celebrate and to laugh and to cry as we remember Mary and pray for the healing of Moriah.

Bet you never thought you'd see me on this side of the pulpit!

If adversity introduces a man to himself I have certainly become to know myself much better through the past year.

Thank you for coming to remember Mary and again to pray for Moriah's healing. And for all that you have done throughout the year. I do not know what's going to happen with her but I do know that it is in God's and Moriah's hands and all we can do is pray.

The events of the last year have lead me to cover every emotion possible. But most
importantly it has taught me how blessed I am with family and friends. I am honored and blessed to count all of you in that group.

It has taught me not to be so selfish as to think that I have suffered the most or the greatest. We all carry burdens and have our own trials and tribulations. so I am sure that I am not alone in needing help or prayers. One of the hardest things for me to face after the accident was to tell family and friends as to what had happend. Seeing your suffering showed me how much it impacted you also. I know how much Mary and Moriah mean to you. And how special their friendships are. I now know the depths of those friendships.

Mary and I had what I believe was a unique/special relationship. It wasn't perfect of course as we had our moments, but they were few. She lived by the rule to never go to bed or end the day without resolving something that was bothering you. It 's a good rule. She was the most forthright, honest person I have ever known. She believed that one should be content and happy with what they had and what they had been given. We'd do our own thing but loved doing things together. Several months ago I received a note from her Mom thanking me for not restricting her life, but for enhancing it, for letting her do her own thing and for letting her be herself. A finer compliment I could not think of.

If the depth of one's pain is measured by the depth of one's love, then you know why I have suffered so much.

She had one of the greatest smiles ever. She had a great sense of humour and many of you know a lot of those stories. I've heard a few more since she left us and I'm sure there's even more out there. Several years ago after popping my achilles tendon while playing softball, I realized my jumping, running etc. days of that type of sports were probably over so I decided to take up golf. I hadn't ever played much but was always interested in it. I played a few times and on a trip to Des Moines I played golf with my friend Laird and ended up buying some golf clubs. On the way home she asked me where her clubs were? She told me that she would not become a golf widow!! So she got clubs for Christmas that year and we started playing quite a bit of golf together. There is no one I would rather play a round of golf with.

Her friends in the Galway neighborhood are honoring her with a plaque that will be placed in the ground not far from here. I couldn't think of something more fitting to remember her by. Many thanks to those of you who had a hand in this. Her compassion, her love of children, her sense of what a neighborhood should be, are all wrapped up in that memorial. She really felt that the most important job in this world was in being a mother. I couldn't disagree with her.

She was a mom, a daughter, a friend, my wife and my best friend ever. I am so proud of her. But most importantly she was a Christian. She taught me so much and continues to teach me something everyday. Whether she was tending her garden, decorating, sewing, golfing, reading, dancing, sitting in the sun, or socializing with her friends and family, volunteering, or many of the other activites that she was involved in, she really felt that it was our responsibility to try and make the world a better place. "Do what you can where you can" was one of her motto's. We had many dreams together, some of which I still hope to accomplish.

She was true evangelist for her faith. She wasn't afraid to talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime, any place about her faith and her beliefs. I know of so many times that she did this. She wasn't pushy or pretentious and always had a respect for others. Whether it was a piano player and his wife in Jamaica, a street vendor in Mazatlan, a waitress in Vegas, a person from another religion that knocked on the door, boy did they get a surprise when they knocked on her door! Amongst family and friends, you knew where she stood. And speaking of where she stood, when someone would ask her how tall she was, she would usually respond by the now famous answer 5' 12"!! She didn't believe in (pardon the pun Pastor Dave) preaching, she belived in leading by example and being a witness to the grace of God and the compassion of Christ.

Then there is our Moriah,

She has a lot of Mary in her. Stubborn and tough. Loved music and fashion and decorating. Loved to get dressed up and go dancing. Mostly she loved her friends and her family and loved life.

As most 24 year olds do, she was trying to find her way. Once when she got into a little bit of trouble, her Mom and Dad wanted to help her out. Nope! I got into this and I'm going to get out of it on my own. There in lies the term Independence! She would accept help but surely wouldn't expect it. She also loved to have a good time and had a wonderful sense of humour. This won't mean a lot to all of you but she will long be remembered as Nick Faldo's girlfriend and for coining the now infamous phrase uttered in the Amana's "There is always room for more bread"

I have had many people tell me how much she thought of her family. For allowing her to be herself and how much she thought of her Mom and Dad. Again I don't think I could think of a finer compliment. Well Mojo we're very proud of you also and we know what a fight you have put up so far.

The two of them touched many people who I did not know before, but who I have become to know now. This truly speaks to the friendships that they have formed.

I cry often, not only tears of grief, but tears of joy, for being so blessed with 3 great girls in my life and for the blessings that all of you have give us. And for the many fond memories and moments of joy that fill my brain.

Obviously, We could not have gotten through this without a lot of help. I only hope that maybe somehow I can return what has been given to me. Collectivley I would like to thank everyone who has helped us out during the past year. To all of our friends who have laughed and cried, and grieved and celebrated with us. To those of you who have prayed for us, please continue to do so. This struggle isn't quite over yet. And I continue to pray for all of you also.

Individually I would like to thank,

Bob "Silos" Stewart, for making the cross. You have been a great friend. There is also something special about one of your friends becoming your wife's friend.

To all the writers and musicians who's words and music have helped me and inspired me. It is a gift from God that you have. I only wish I would have received more of you talent.

Any of you who have visited Moriah or brought us something to eat or done something to help us out.

To Pastor Dave and Christ the King!! Lutheran Church. Your strength and faith astounds me. You have all been a great blessing.

To my little buddy Jawon. Thank you for helping me keep things in perespective, and for being a symbol of the beauty and innocence of a child. Thank you also to your family for allowing me to remain in your life.

To all who have cared for Moriah. From the ambulance drivers to the outstanding staff in ICU at the University of Iowa Hospitals. To all the staff at On With Life in Ankeny. And to the providers at Windmill Manor in Coralville. You are surely doing the Lord's work.

To Brent and Chris Nichols. For the cookouts and for offering me the diversion of watching sports on your big screen in your basement in HDTV. Man is that cool!!

To Darlene and Brian. Dar I know you miss Mary alot. You were the short in the tall and short of it! For opening your home to members of my family. And for all that you have done to help me since the accident. Brian thank you for sharing your love of music and for getting me out of the house several times to listen to some great live music. For exposing me to some music that otherwise I wouldn't have enjoyed.

To Mark and Angela, Also for opening your house to be Grand Central during the first few weeks after the accident. For inviting me to join you for dinner or a nite out. For just calling to see if I'm ok or how I'm doing. I've got to admit I probably didn't tell you the truth in regards to that a couple of times. You have been great friends. I am honored to be counted among your friends.

To Laird and Sandy,
Words can not express how much I value our friendship. You have done all you could to help me. Laird you came to my rescue immediately. I never thought us two tough guys could cry so much. I will be forever grateful not only for you love, but for your words, your honesty, your advice, and your spirit. You also shared some of our dreams and I hope we can accomplish some of those even after all of this.

To my families, To my Mom and Dad and my family and to Mary's Mom and Dad and their family. For being there since the beginning and throughout our lives and for teaching us the values that I needed to cope with this tragedy. For teaching me that bitterness and jealously are two terrible traits. If I had not learned this lesson early, I would have never had 26 great years with Mary or two beautiful children.

To Danielle, You have been a rock and I am so proud of what you have accomplished and how you have handled this past year.

But most importantly to my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God's grace and spirit is surely alive, even during these troubled times.

I will leave you with a story,
Several months ago and after starting the blog, I was contacted by someone who I know casually. He wanted to buy me breakfast and meet some of his friends. I didn't know him well and I didn't know any of his friends. So anyway I meet the four of them for breakfast and we tell each other a bit about our lives. They tell me how much the blog has touched them and how amazing they think I am, ha! Of course I'm a little embarasssed and I said something like,and you know it's not just me it's also people like you, my friends and my family that are all part of this. Now I've never been much of a writer, and I think the last official story I ever wrote was in 3rd or 4th grade, a piece called "Fred the Red Penguin". I think I might have got an A, but afterward the teacher and probably my parents were a little concerned with the content and they sent me to be psycho analyzed, anyway that was the end of my writing career. I woke up that night with a thought in my head,
"It's not me It's you"
The rest just sort of happened and I'm not sure I know where it came form, well actually I do.

I wanted to write it so not only would it mean something to a group but also to any individual that I might share it with. I wanted to convey the thought that this is a group effort and that the strength of others and of our faith is what gets us through.

In Job chapter 6 v14 it says,
Those who withold kindness from a friend forsake the fear of the almighty.
My friends, you should all know that you have not forsaken me.

Many of you have read this and I would like to read it now.
Again thank you for being a part of our lives and for coming to this service.

It is not I, it is you
It is you that I receive my motivation from
It is you that I receive my strength from
It is you that inspires me
It is my faith that guides me

It was easier when I knew nothing
for what a fool I once was
And even though I have learned so much
It is much harder now that I have lost so much

But it is you
Not me
Without you I would be lost
and weak
So may God's grace continue to give you the strength
That you so unselfishly
Give to me
God Bless
Where would I be without all of you?

Peace
Dale

12-28-06

2006-12-28T14:20:00.000-08:00

What a day yesterday was. I will, once I get everything together, post on the blog a synapsis of the service last night. It was quite an emotional experience for me and many others also. Moriah made an appearance at the service, which was very cool. Thank you Windmill Manor. Thank you also to Hills Bank and to the family of Hawkeye Harry Robbins for providing the Roses. What a great group of people. Many thanks to Pastor Dave and Rex for their support and leading the service.

Not anything new to report on Mojo, she seemed to handle the trip to Church well. We hope to do more of this type of thing, so who knows where she might show up. They were concerned with some congestion in her lungs, but a trip to good ol UIHC and some tests came up negative.

"It's hard to seperate a boy from the Blues""
John Prine

I didn't ask Maureen one of Moriah's best friends if I could post this but I'm going to go ahead and do it. Cuz Maureen's in Costa Rica, having a good time I'm sure.

Maureen's favorite things about Moriah

The way she walks into a room knowing she is one of the most beautiful women in the room.

She does not care what people think of her.

Moriah can talk me into anything but never pressure me.

Moriah leaves voicemails that start with, "Hey Mo, it's Mo."

Moriah supports all of my decisions even if they aren't the best decisions because she has faith I will land on my feet.

Moriah can make friends with anyone! Just the two of us would go out with the sole purpose of making new friends.

She holds my hand during hard times and jumps for joy when life is good.

Moriah's laugh fills a room. I can still hear it and often think, "Moriah would love to be here and I would love her to be here too."

Moriah is the glue of our friendships.

Though my faith and strength have waned over this year, I know Moriah's hasn't and this keeps me going.

You have a choice to be bitter or better.

How cool is that??
God Bless you Maureen.

Peace
Dale

12-22-06

2006-12-22T13:38:00.000-08:00

Not a lot new with Mojo. She still looks good and has had her eyes open most of the time. I did seem to get her to move her left arm a couple of times on Monday. She seems to know what's going on but it's very hard to tell as her responses are inconsistent. Many, Many thanks to all of you who keep visiting her. It means a ton.

The memorial/prayer service is set for Wednesday Evening 12-27-06 at 6:30 p.m. at Christ the King!! Lutheran Church in Iowa City. It is located at the corner of Mormon Trek Blvd and Melrose Avenue. If anyone would like to say a few words or share a story about Mary and Moriah or our family please let me know.
We're also going to plant a cross at the accident site around 4 o'clock or so on Wednesday the 27th. Anyone is welcome. You can park in the parking lot to the west of 965 and walk over. This is of course weather permitting.

I'll be out of town for Christmas with my family. Hope to see many of you next week. Again I can be reached at 319 400 4423.

Have a blessed Christmas.
Peace
Dale

12-15-06

2006-12-15T17:56:00.000-08:00

Just wanted to let everyone know that the Memorial/Prayer service for Moriah and Mary will be @6:30 p.m. at Christ the King!! Lutheran Church in Iowa City on Wednesday December 27th. Should be a great time to remember the lives of these two great ladies.
Peace
God Bless
Dale

12-14-06

2006-12-14T20:17:00.000-08:00

I got a couple of squeezes out of Moriah's hand this morning so that was cool. Who knows?? Keep the faith. She still looks good and even had some ear rings in this week. Thanks girls!
I continue to visit her just about on a daily basis. Many thanks to all of you who have visited her also. Special thanks to Connie Betcher for the Christmas tree.

We're planning a Memorial/Prayer/Inspirational service to honor Mary and Moriah, the week after Christmas. I will get you the details when we have finalized the plans. It will be held at the church. If you have any ideas or would like to say something or speak, please let me know.

Kathy Baack, Mary's good friend from high school and one of her bridesmaids has been diagnosed with a pretty wide spread case of cancer. Please keep her and Darwin and their family in your prayers.

My pain and problems keep me chained
And my troubled heart makes me weak
I'll wait for You to comfort me
And in You I know I'll find my strength

Third Day Song ,Eagles Album, Wherever You Are

God Bless
Keep the Faith
Don't give up the fight
Yah Mon
Dale

12-7-06

2006-12-07T07:39:00.000-08:00

Not a lot new with Moriah. She has a bit of a cold so that is being watched. She still looks pretty good, no skin breakdown which is amazing. Has had her eyes open on just about every visit this past week. It's difficult for me to believe that we are coming up on the one year anniversary of this tragedy. I guess Ol father time waits for no one. We continue to pray and hope that something good happens. Again I thank all of you who have stood by in this fight. It is an unplanned struggle that could not be done alone.

I wait for the Lord, my soul
waits,
and in his word I hope;
my soul waits for the Lord
more than those who watch
for the morning.

Psalm 130

I checked out Indigenous at The Mill last night with Matt"Maintenance Man" Lawrence and about 20 of our friends. Okay maybe 15 of our friends, well actually I didn't know anybody else. And beside the staff and the first band maybe there were 6 of us. Kind of a shame as this is an internationally know band. One heck of a show.

I'm heading down to the lake for a few days. The weather of last week wreaked havoc on many of the boat docks on the lake. Sunken boats and docks and zillions of dollars of damage. Sounds like my place is ok. Hope to get some work done outside but looks like the weather may put a damper on that.

Danielle will be home the week after Christmas, so I am looking forward to that.

REMEMBER!!
The true reason for the season.
God Bless
Talk to you all next week
Peace
Dale

11-29-06

2006-11-29T17:13:00.000-08:00

Moriah has essentially been the same over the last week. She still looks pretty good and had her eyes open most of the time. Her left eye looks much better than it did last week. She is still having some bladder issues which is affecting her potassium level, but hopefuly they will be able to fix that nutritionally. I continue to pray that she gets unstuck. I watched "Elf" with her today, I guess that means the Christmas season is upon us. The weather is sure reflecting that as the cold has arrived. Thanks to those of you who visited her over the past weekend. I had a good trip to Eau Claire and both brothers and my sister were there along with Mom and Dad. It was good to be together, albeit(Harry?) kind of weird under the circumstances. Wow, who would of thunk?

There is a universe that can't be seen
It's a feelin if you know what I mean
Delectable dimension, undetctable by sight
Fills up you heart in the dead of the night
Some say that it's an astral plane
Can't be described, can't be explained
The world exploded in Love all around me
And every time I take a look around me
All I can do is smile

Bob Schneider "The World Exploded in Love All Around Me" Album "Lonely Land"

On the music scene, Indigenous, a native American blues band from South Dakota will be at The Mill next Wednesday night. Not sure if the The Mill can hold their sound in. This show will not be for the faint of heart as the sound will be somewhere between Hendrix and Stevie Ray!!

I found the following words on a card while digging through some stuff. Enjoy the tears of joy.

When things are changing all around us
And the world seems to move too fast, don't forget,
I'll be right beside you, loving you,
What I feel for you is deep, total, and enduring--
a love you can count on without ever having to wonder.
So when you look ahead to future changes or think about how
the past used to be,
don't forget to look beside you, because that's where you'll find me,
loving you with all my heart.
That's one thing you can count on that will never, ever change.

Mary to Dale Anniversary 1994
Hope you enjoyed the tears, I sure did.
God Bless
Peace
Dale

Thanksgiving 2006

2006-11-23T18:07:00.000-08:00

I am thankful that I can count all of you amongst my friends.

Moriah is about the same. Her left eye is becoming an issue again, but she has had her eyes open all week. I did get some reaction out of her and hope that they progress. I watched the parade with her this morning. We always got up early on Thanksgiving and started cooking and watched the the parade with the girls. It's been one of those days of burdens and blessings. I had a great weekend in Minneapolis last week. Watched some good football(the high school game) and had a lot of fun. Another tradition carried on alone but none the less carried on.

I'm heading out to Eau Claire to spend the weekend with my family. Hopefully I will survive Black Friday(much too kind of a term).

Hope all of you had a great Thanksgiving and remember,
Tell them that you love them!!
Peace
God Bless
Dale

11-16-06

2006-11-16T20:17:00.000-08:00

Moriah still looks good! She has had her eyes open all week during my visits. I will be heading out this weekend to watch the Hawkeyes play the Rodents in the big white roller rink in Minneapolis. If you could visit Mojo while I am gone I would greatly appreciate it.

Thank you Mark and Angela for the great meal and your company. Good Stuff!!

I'm tired of running around looking for answers to questions that I already know!! Hmmmmm?
John Prine

Dear Lord
Make her right or
Use her might!!

Hope you all have a great weekend
God Bless
Dale

11-13-06

2006-11-13T19:17:00.000-08:00

Moriah and I spent the morning and some of the afternoon at UIHC. Sure don't miss that place much. While I was sitting there I think the enormity of this entire thing hit me. Anyway, She had a CT scan and a MRI and a checkup from the neuro staff. Nothing major to report but she has improved incrementaly since her last visit. Her brain looks pretty good for the most part. No major damage. Her break of the upper vertabrae's has healed very well. Again medically she appears to be in pretty good shape. She has had her eyes open alot over the past week. The Doc says that she still has a shot, albeit a bit against the odds. He said that if he had it to do all over again he would reccomend the same treatment. He still believes that the issue is in reconnection. Nothing bad but nothing great. They adjusted her shundt to drain a bit more, just to make sure that if there is any excess fluid on the brain it will be removed. This was done with a high tech device(magnet). Once again, all we have is hope.

I would like to share with you something that Gunner sent me back in the spring. He had found this written down on a plain piece of paper in his Dad's stuff after he passed away about 3 years ago. I think of Gunner often. You never forget those that you first rode with.

Today upon a bus I saw
A lovely maiden with golden hair
I envied her, she seemed so gay
And oh, I wished I were so fair
When suddenly she arose to leave,
I saw her hobble down the aisle
She had one foot and wore a crutch
But as she passed a Smile
Oh God forgive me when I whine
I have two feet the world is mine

And when I stopped to buy some sweets
The kid who served me had such charm
He seemed to radiate good cheer
His manner was so kind and warm
I said "It's nice to deal with you, such courtesy I seldom find"
He turned and said "Oh thank you sir"
And then I saw that he was blind
Oh god forgive me when I whine
I have two eyes the world is mine

Then walking down the street
I saw a child with eyes of blue
It seemed he knew not what to do
I stopped a moment then I said
"Why don't you join the others dear?"
He looked ahead without a word
And I knew he could not hear
Oh god forgive me when I whine
I have two ears the world is mine

With feet to take me where I go
With eyes to see the sunsets glow
With ears to hear what I would know
I'm blessed the world is mine
Oh God forgive me when I whine

Enjoy the sunsets and the sunrises
Peace out
Dale

11-7-06

2006-11-07T08:00:00.000-08:00

Moriah had a pretty good week but remains in essentialy the same condition. Grandpa and Grandma Reiman visited her this weekend. She did have her eyes open most of the time. She looks much better and her complexion on her face looks a lot better. She did turn her head and react to her Grandmother. Again, we keep praying for something good to happen.

Lord, unbind her from these chains!!!!

My Dad watched the Hawkeyes with me on Saturday. Ich!!! A real stinker. Hopefully they will get it together as one of the rodents of the Big Ten visits on this Saturday.(Wisconsin)

This was one of those weekends where a lot of random thoughts passed through my head. As time goes by(fast) I continue to be consumed with the blessings of all of my friends and family. This has been, of course, the greatest impact of any event in my life. God Bless all of you. Many thanks for your thoughts and prayers.

More lyrics from the Ozark Mountain Daredevils Album #13 a line from each song

Life so fast fast I'm afraid to blink, people still live in chains

There's a light that no one see's, but it's as bright as the sun to me, everywhere she goes
Everywhere she goes she takes my heart and soul
Everywhere she goes she makes me feel what only Heaven knows

If you have a question, just ask

Pick the time, pick the place
Pick the lock on the last embrace

I've got a one way ticket to the open road
I've got all day to get there and nowhere to go

So live and learn and take your chances
and every step will bring that distant shore into view
I see that light so bright streamin in

Jumpin in a taxi you gotta see the band play
it's on a little side street a little off of Broadway

Your voice whispers words to make me believe
Nothings different, nothings changed with you and me
I feel lost if not forgotten Where are we? Are you still here ?
Our love is drowning in tears. (Wow!!!)

I'm still dreamin about you

As long as this goes on there will be love in every song we sing

Just when it's all blown away
Just when there's nothin left to stay
Just when I'm so far from home
Just when I'm lost and alone
I feel your guiding light
In the day in the night

And prays for shelter from the storm
Where they dream of a world
Without sadness and pain
What's another tear in the rain?

In the street light while I'm walkin
I hear voices someone talkin
When I listen
No affection something missing
No direction

I'm going out bar hoppin, be boppin
There's won't be no stoppin me tonight
The good Lord know it's time to rock
And when the sun goes down I'll be gone (of course one party song!)

The great thing about music and lyrics is that it means different things to everybody. Hope this all means something to all of you.
God Bless
Peace
Dale

10-30-06

2006-10-29T17:00:00.000-08:00

Jawon and I watched the Hawkeyes Saturday in between visits to Moriah. She looked pretty good and had her eyes open most of the time. We did see her move her left arm several times and she did seem to have reaction to voices. Her complexion seems to be getting better. She seemed to have a little bit more of a focus in her eyes, so we hope and pray that this continues. Again it's hard to say how many of these reactions or voluntary or otherwise, but we'll take what we get.

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Jawon and I spent Friday evening and Saturday together. If you would look up energy you might find his picture there. We had a great time. I'll share some of our conversations with you.
God Bless
Dale

Lessons from a 4.5 year old

Hey Dale"Did you know Sea Snake taste like chicken." "Well what's chicken taste like? "Chicken tastes like Chicken"

Hey Jawon which soup do you want "why don't you just mix them together"

Hey Dale "don't forget to stir the soup"

Hey Dale "Is that where they put up the building where the park was?" "Why would they do that?"

Tailgaiting "Boy this is one big party!!"

"Go Hawkeyes"

Hey Dale "Remember you make the bacon and I make the eggs"

Hey Dale "Let's go outside and feel the weather" "It feels good"

Hey Dale "Did you know Mary's with the Angels? "I sure miss her"

Yeah me too.

back from the the ozarks

2006-10-23T17:13:00.000-07:00

The week at the lake went well, however I wish the weather would have been nicer. The fall colors were outstanding. Another reminder of the beauty that has been created for us. I couldn't stop thinking how Mary would have commented relentlesly about how beautiful it was. I can't say I've ever seen the colors of fall so vividly. Not sure if they were that great or that I notice things like that more now. Thanks to Laird and Sandy, the greatest friends one could have. I am truly a blessed man in so many ways.

I arrived back on Friday and went to see Mojo. She was wide eyed and alert. Over the weekend she was very alert and saw a few yawns, heard a couple of moans(new) and some sneezes. She did have an issue with a urinary infection, but that seems to have been resolved. Her face looked much better. She looked a lot better than she has the last month, so let's hope and pray that something good is coming. I think I could handle a miracle. Many thanks to all the staff at Windmill Manor.

On the music scene, Buddy Guy was great, too bad it was in a casino and they held him to his contracted 90 minutes, but none the less, very enjoyable. Saturday night I checked out Bruce Teague and his new band at the Yacht Club followed by Big Time Sarah (A Chicago Blues Icon). Some how Mary got connected through church with Bruce several years ago. Check him out sometime, he's got a great Blue's voice. Thanks to Brent and Brian and Darlene for a fun evening.

He uncovers the deeps out of darkness,
and brings deep darkness to light.
Job 12 v22

Keep on the sunny side
God Bless
Dale

10-11-06

2006-10-11T18:37:00.000-07:00

Moriah was somewhat alert over the weekend and was visited by Aunt Jane(Mary's sister) and Uncle Ron. She was very quiet the first couple of days this week. I guess I should know better but when things don't change you kind of start wondering if anything is ever going to get better. Just when I somewhat tend to give up on her she reminds me she's still here. I had a couple of kind of tough days and when I walked in to see her today and said her name she flinched in her chair and kept her eyes wide open the entire time I was there. Not saying it means anything but as you've heard before, hope is all we have. I keep praying that she doesn't stay stuck in the "in between".

"Great victories come, not through ease, but by fighting valiantly and meeting hardships bravely"
Many thanks to those of you who continue the fight by our sides.

I have a couple of extra tickets to see Buddy Guy on October 20. If anyone is interested give me a call at 319-400-4423 or you can probably find me at Maynerds. Only for the next couple of days as I will be heading to the lake on Friday for several days.

Why do we sing the Blues?? Cuz it's what we got and you don't find them, they find you.

For as the rain and the snow
come down from heaven,
and do not return there until
they have watered the
earth,
making it bring forth and sprout,
giving seed to the sower and
bread to the eater.
so shall my word be that goes
out from my mouth;
it shall not return to me
empty,
but it shall accomplish that
which I purpose,
and succeed in the thing for
which I sent it.
Isaiah 55 v10,11

We do not know what's in store for us, only that there is a purpose. You all mean a lot to me, thanks again for being there for us.
God Bless,
Dale

P.S.
Please pray for a very large CATFISH next week!!!
Sorry

10-3-06

2006-10-03T20:00:00.000-07:00

No major changes in Mojo's condition since the last posting. She has had her eyes open a fair amount the last week, but also goes through periods where she does not. Her eyes seem a bit better. There have been some minor reactions to voices(me yelling at her) but nothing that could be considered consistent. She seemed to be deeply saddened by the Hawks performance on Saturday. She was as some of you know a pretty big football fan. I continue to be touched by your prayers and thoughts. It is at times overwhelming, in a very good way. I am amazed by how many people Moriah and Mary touched, many of whom I did not know. Please stop by and see her if you have a few minutes.

I know that God will not give me more than I can handle, I just wish he didn't trust me so much.
Mother Theresa

Goodbye's certainly have taken on a different connotation than they did before.

God Bless
Be Strong
Dale

9-26-06

2006-09-26T20:04:00.000-07:00

Mojo's condition pretty much remains the same. Medically(other than not being awake) she's in pretty good shape. The eyes have not been open a lot. She did open them up this morning while we were sitting outside on the front porch. When her eyes aren't open a lot they are problematic with matter building up in them. They do look much better than they did a few days ago so hopefully we are on the right track. Your visits and thoughts are important so thank you in advance and please keep them up. It means a lot to all of us.

I have joined the ranks of learning how to burn and download CD's(thank you Ryan) I am currently in the process of downloading my collection. So far I'm at 1787 songs and I haven't scratched the surface. So if anyone wants a copy of something please let me know. I would be more than happy to oblige.

Changes, well I never thought I'd come to the point that I wouldn't be upset at the Vikes blowing a lead in the 4th quarter. Just doesn't seem all that big of a deal. Well at least it wasnt' to the Packers!!

And how bout those Twins!!

Some folks drive a pickup truck
And some folks drive a Bentley
But sooner or later we all end up, over in the break down lane.
OMD Dream O #13

Peace
God Bless
Hope you stay out of the breakdown lane.
Dale

GO HAWKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dale

9-19-06

2006-09-19T20:27:00.000-07:00

Moriah has been a little quieter this week.. She hasn't had her eyes open quite as much. It seems that darn left eye is still bothering her. Her alertness seems to coincide with the condition of the left eye so hopefully we can get it fixed. Medically she remains in pretty good shape. Just needs to wake up!!!!!!!!!

Here is the preliminary wording for the plaque that will honor Mary near the side walk in Galway Hills

In Memory of Mary Reiman
A true friend & fun loving spirit who
Welcomed the first neighbors to Galway Hills
With the music of her laughter and her beautiful smile.
We had the good fortune to cross your path in life
And we will never forget you.

If tears could build a stairway and memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven and bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken; no time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it, and only God knows shy

You'll nver be forgotten. We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts where you will always stay

When Mary left us
Heaven's garden held a new bloom

Many thanks to all that had input into this
Pretty cool I'd say

God Bless
Dale

Go Hawks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and
Vikings
and
Twins

9-12-06

2006-09-12T20:54:00.000-07:00

Moriah has been about the same the past few days as in the previous week. She continues to have her eyes open a significant amount and seems to be resting a little more comfortable while she's laying down. The left eye remains problematic as it looks good and clear and than will be red and shut occasionaly. The nurses report that she has improved in her responses, so we'll go with that for now. I guess she wacked one of them a couple of days ago with her arm.

A cheerful heart is a good medicine,
but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs

I guess that means stay postive and keep up the prayers.

Mary's friend Darlene talked Bob Schneider in to mentioning me during his last stop in Iowa City. Having never listened to him prior to Brian and Darlene taking me to his show at The Mill in April, I've been amazed and touched by his lyrics. Leave it to Dar. He'll be doing an acoustic show at The Mill on Monday night the 18th. Believe me he puts on an adult show but, his love songs are amazing.

I wish I was a baby bear sleeping in the brown
Winter grass in April while the sun was going down
And I wish my shoes were empty
And I was still in bed
With you there beside me with your dreams inside your head
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
And I wish the wind would blow me, blow me back to you

I wish your Mom was ugly and your Dad was ugly too
Cuz then they couldn't had a girl to be as beautiful as you
And I wish I was a tight rope walker with legs made out of gold
Cuz I'd hold you in my golden legs and never let you go
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
And I wish the wind would blow me, blow me back to you

I wish I could see Jesus shining in the sky
So he could finally tell me everything was just a lie
And I wish I knew that God's love was all I'd ever need (I do)
I'd cut my candy teeth for fun and let the good times bleed

Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
Oh I wish the world would do what I want it to
And I wish the world would blow me, blow me back to you

Be Strong
God Bless
Dale

9-8-06

2006-09-07T20:42:00.000-07:00

9-08-1979 Bethlehem Lutheran Church
Hills, Mn.

Organ Prelude

Lighting of the Candles

Solo: Dale

Invocation and Greeting

Prayer

The Liturgy of the Word

Hymn: 287, O Perfect Love

Sermonette

Mutual Vows

The Blessing

Wedding Prayer

The Lord's Prayer

Hymn: 288, Hear us Now, Our God and Father

Benediction

Recessional

The Wedding Party

The Bride Mary Alice Van Driel
The Groom Dale Allen Reiman

Parents: Claude and Verna Van Driel
Leonard and Anice Reiman

Maid of Honor Jayne Van Driel

Best Man John "Gunner" Ewalt

Bridesmaids Bette Van Driel
Kathy Baack

Groomsmen Rob Hagen "The Fainter"
Mark Henle

Ushers Mike Jenkins
Jim Younger
Jim Reiman
Ryan Reiman

Bride's Attendants Jan Juidice
Jane Shaughnessy

Pastors Rev. Lowell Berg
Rev. O. Paul Hougen

Organist Evangeline Ophiem

Meanwhile these three remain: faith, hope, and LOVE; and the greatest of these is LOVE.

Married in Minnesota, Danced in Iowa, Spent the night in South Dakota. Siouxland!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seems like yesterday
Peace
Dale

9-6-06

2006-09-06T08:32:00.000-07:00

The Labor Day weekend ended a good week for Mojo. She had her eyes open most of the time. Her left eye has looked a lot better this past week. We continue to have hope that something good will happen with her. Again, many thanks to all of you who have prayed for us. That is where our strength comes from. (That's what makes us strong!)
Thank you to all that visited her over the weekend.

But he would withdraw to deserted places and pray. Luke 5 v16 yep!!

Keep the faith!!!!

God Bless
Dale

8-30-06

2006-08-30T18:56:00.000-07:00

Moriah has really had her eyes open this week. She's been more alert than at any time since the accident. Her left eye looks much better. Hopefully (please, please, please,) this is a sign of some incremental improvement that will continue. Any improvement will be slow, so we're hoping this is a step in the right direction. Please pray that she beats the odds. So for now, some cautious enthusiasm. All we have is hope!!

Brother Ryan will be visiting for the Labor day weekend( GO HAWKS!!)

John Prine was fantastic. A couple of tears were shed. "Oh the beauty of true love"

Hope everyone has a safe and enjoyable weekend.

You can run a red light
Give up on your whole life
You break the mold
When you're running through the tolls
Speeding through your whole life

When things look low
You've gotta keep strong
Feet to the grass
You've gotta walk it off
The bows been tied
Too tight to laugh
Feet to the ground
You've gotta walk it off

You can run a red light
You can run a red light

You sing a song
While sitting at a red light

Great song of Jonny Lang's album "Long Time Coming"

8-25-06

2006-08-25T18:04:00.000-07:00

Moriah seemed to have a couple of better days today and yesterday. She was alert and held her head up on her own which she hasn't done for awhile. She had her eyes open when I visited her this afternoon. We sat out front and enjoyed the warm weather. Don't give up!!! Keep up the prayers!!

Today while I was on my almost daily walk along Oakdale Ave I listened to a disc that's been getting a lot of of my attention lately. It's called "A New Shade of Blue" by Kelley Hunt. I saw her for the first time over at the Mississippi Blue's Fest over the Fourth of July. Let's just say I was impressed(smitten) with her and her music. If you like a little Gospel, a little Aretha, and a little Mahalia mixed in with your rock and blues then you would enjoy this album.. She does a remake of Jesse Winchester's "That's What Makes You Strong" A truly outstanding song.

If you love somebody, than that means you need somebody
And if you need somebody, well that's what makes you weak
But if you know you're weak
And you know you need someone,
Oh it's a funny thing, but that's what makes you strong
That's what make you strong, That's what gives you power
That's what let's the meek come sit beside the king
That's what let's us smile in our final hour
That what moves our souls and that's what makes us sing
Just to trust somebody is to be dissapointed
It's never what you wanted, it happens all the time
If you're the trusting kind, this don't even cross your mind
Oh it's a funny thing but that's what makes you strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll be heading out tomorrow to check out John Prine in Des Moines. Really looking forward to seeing one of America's great singer/songwriters and to see some old friends.

Danielle's new address is
601 Cliveden St
Apt A201
Philadlephia, PA. 19119

God Bless
Keep the Faith!!
Dale

Philadelphia, PA

8-20-06

2006-08-20T17:43:00.000-07:00

I visited Mojo today after returning from Philadelphia. Danielle's move went well, except for some traffic delays in Chicago and a couple smaller ones in Pennsylvania. She starts school next Monday. Moriah was a little bit alert but seemd somewhat tired. We have a couple of medical checkups coming so we'll see how that goes. Thank you to all of those who visited her while I was away.
I read an entire book today on the flights and time at the airports. Don't think I've ever read that much in one day. Pretty good book called "And You Know You Should Be Glad" by Bob Greene. Once again was I was amazed by the similarities of certain aspects of my life. It's nice to know we're not on this ride alone.

The friends who mean everything to us--the friends without whom our lives would be empty--are our most enduring models of grace and good fortune. We know that our time on earth would have had paltry meaning had not, one fine day, our lives connected for the first time with the lives of the people who would turn out to be our most treasured friends. Bob Greene

I continue to be blessed by the depths your friendships. Family and Friends, May God Bless all of you.
Dale

8-15-06

2006-08-15T05:58:00.000-07:00

Jawon and I visited Moriah on Saturday and she was up in her chair and alert. She remains stable. No major changes in her condition this week. She has had her eyes open a fair amount, but her alertness remains inconsistent. It sure has been nice to have her so close so that many friends can visit her.
Danielle and I will be leaving Thursday for the long drive to Philadelphia where she will return to college at Philadelphia University. I am so proud of her! She has been a great help and comfort the past several months. Please pray for a safe journey.
The correct phone number for Windmill Manor is 319-545-7390. I mis printed it in the earlier blog.

God Bless
Dale

8-9-06

2006-08-09T19:04:00.000-07:00

Spent the afternoon today with Moriah. Hung up pictures and organized some of her stuff and did the dreaded paperwork. She had her eyes open sitting up in her chair. She looked to the side once when one of the nurses came into talk to us. Still putting drops in her eye and it looks a bit better but she doesn't open it as much as the right one. Hope you can all get out to see her. I warned them that they might get run over with visitors!!! They didn't seem to mind. Wanted to give everyone the address etc on where she's at.

Windmill Manor
2332 Liberty Drive
Coralville, Ia. 52241
319-545-77390
fax 319-545-7393

God Bless
Dale